Dear Mr. Proppa Fix,
I read your advice column yesterday (last week) and was impressed with the advice you gave to the young man. I have my own dilemma and would like your advice.

I am a 20 year-old woman attending a tertiary level institution in the Montego Bay area. I consider myself very attractive and most guys compliment my figure. I am also an outgoing person who enjoys meeting people.

I have been dating this guy for two months, he is a perfect gentleman, and he always tries to give me anything I want. He makes a respectable living and he is very progressive and ambitious as he is always looking for new opportunities. We connect on a social level, however, the problem is that he has a very small d**k - when I say small I mean that it is short and very mawga. The first time we were about to have sex, and he took off his clothes I had to search to find it- it was so embarrassing.

I know that he is sensitive about it because I realize that he always wants the lights to be off whenever we are having sex and he has had to resort to ‘other’ methods of trying to please me sexually. The thing is that nothing can replace a good d**k and that is what I am used to getting, as my last boyfriend was very well endowed.

Mr. Proppa Fix - Tek it or leave it

Dear Mr. Proppa Fix,

I am an educated young man with a well paying job in the Corporate Area. I consider myself well mannered and good with women.

A few weeks ago, I was introduced by a friend to a young woman who attends a tertiary institution in Kingston. She is very attractive and smart and we had no problem hitting it off. We went out for a date on the same night we met and after we went back to her place to ‘chill’. Nothing happened because I think that people should get to know each other before they become intimate. We kept in touch over the phone and went on several dates after that and we have started to develop feelings for each other. My problem is the other day she told me that she has something to confess to me - she told me that she had lied about her age and she was in fact 16 instead of 18 as she had previously told me.

Mr. Proppa fix I felt upset and confused because I don’t usually date people that are younger than me and this girl is nearly 8 years my junior. The major dilemma is that she is desperate for us to have sex and I am very hesitant because of the age difference.

Most of my friends are styling me as a ‘waste man’ and a’ rucks’. They think that if she looks ready for the plucking then I should give it to her the real and proper way. However, I really do not want to take advantage of her even though I know that she is not a virgin and legally she is the age of consent. She keeps calling me and expressing the same sentiments and my friends keep telling me that nobody has to know and we can keep it between both of us.

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Letter To The Editor

I grew up seeing guns but never had the desire to use one.

Violent movies are made and viewed regularly. Violent music made in other genres every day.

Now I am not condoning violence in music but on the same note why not boycott violent movies and music (from other genres).

In my view the root problem of violence in society is:

1) Bad or insufficient Parenting
2) Poverty and lack of educational and economical opportunities etc.
3) Lack of Mental strength
4) Lack of proper Governance of the Country

The order from 1-4 is important also.

I was born and raised in Kingston 13 along with my sisters many of my cousins. Only one of my cousins turned out bad and that was because of bad parenting.

I lived near a weekly dancehall session for most of my childhood and adolescent years. I grew up seeing guns but never had the desire to use one. Death was an ever present sight especially in the election time but my relatives and I never partake in the violence.

Most of my high school and university friends came from the deep ghettos and know violence but we never indulged.

All of my friends from High School and University that I am in touch with are doing well economically and in many other ways and I have never heard that they were ever involved in any violent acts.

Most of my relatives, friends and I grew up on violent movies and we watch them even now and listen to Movado, Killer, Ninja, Shaba, Beenie, Kartel, Buju, Capleton (yes Buju and Capleton did a lot of violent songs) etc. even now but we don't commit violent acts.

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Letter to the Editor

The Caribbean Urban Music Awards seems to be another overseas invasion, whilst we sit and accept the so-called established industry awards. Proper research has not been done on this Caribbean Urban Music Awards and it's organizers who have in my opinion produced fictitious figures and specs to manipulate bureaucratic trust.

I have two questions to ask:
1. Why is it that our Jamaican music heads are so gullible?
2. What does Urban Music means to Jamaicans who will be voting in the People’s Choice?

Urban Music is the accepted title that media houses, promoters and producers use to avoid explaining their involvement with marked Dancehall artistes. So why is Sizzla getting this award again?

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Letter to the Editor

Anti-father propaganda: Queen Ifrica's song demonizes and encourages wholesale disrespect and hatred of fathers. The anti-male feminists couldn't be happier to hear a song like this. "Tear down the patriarchy!"

Mothers, aunts, uncles, brothers and sisters also engage in child molestation, not only the father. If you were sincere about addressing child abuse, you would've spoken to all the guilty parties, which includes every single member of the household and the society at large. You would've chosen your words wisely, to reflect a balance, knowing damn well it isn't only SOME fathers committing this heinous act, but SOME mothers, and other family members as well.

What about the women who are enticing underage girls to join them in lesbian acts? Are you going to sing "Mommy don't touch me there?"... "Policewoman don't touch me there?".. "Madam Teacher don't touch me there?" And what about mothers in incestuous relationships with their sons? You know it's happening. How about a male singer doing the flip version of that song and sing "Mommy don't touch me there?" You would raise hell, wouldn't you? Because the mother is a "sacred cow" and you mustn't say anything to taint the institution of motherhood, even though some mothers should be in prison at this moment for burning kids with close iron, beating babies on their mouths with cups and doing other ills.

Every self-respecting man and father should shun you and your lopsided anti-father propaganda rubbish.

-Loving father

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