This topic was highlighted on HITZ FM several days ago, which had several females called in to discuss the steamy topic. However, OutAroad.com decided to hit the streets to get a few female opinions on the topic.
Chanae Hunt, 21 - Student:
Nothing is wrong with getting pregnant for an artiste, you just affi mek sure seh yuh get pregnant for the right one. The girls whose children that will probably have a 99% chance of being taken care of by the artiste are the ones who were with them from day one. On the other hand some girls aim is to get pregnant for di artiste because they see it as their only escape route from being poor. But I personally would not get pregnant for an artiste.
Stephanie Luton, 30 - Security Guard:
For you to get pregnant for an artiste you have to be a groupie, that's if you were with him before he got the break. Entertainers are so busy up and down the place and for you to find his whereabouts then you must be a stalker or a groupie. Ladies when you run after entertainers what you get you must tek and don't go running to the media.
Daniela Williamson, 22 - Clerk:
I am not going to say yes or no who am I to predict life's journey. Anything can happen because yuh can meet an artiste fall in love with him but just don't lay yuh self careless fi get pregnant. But what I can't understand why these artistes have sex with these girls without condoms when most of these girls are groupies.
Desreen Lions, 27:
I would date an artiste but I would not allow myself to get pregnant for one. I don't know but I just could not adjust to his busy lifestyle which results in him spending little or no time with me and his kids while he's on tour with some other girls rubbing him down. I know a regular guy would give trouble as well but artistes nuh affi look woman even if a one foot dem have girls will be hunting dem down.
Cassidy Reynolds, 19:
The only way I would let an artiste breed mi is if him get married to mi, buy mi a house, open future saving plans for the kids to come. If him duh dat den mi would breed for him as much as him like. Mi done know him going to give me bun but from once him coming back home that's fine with me.
Posted on October 12, 2009 13:42
Yes yes ladies, you know he is coming back home to you yes but when he eventually comes back home he is bringing the HIV/AIDS with him too. these artists nowadays don't have the word CONDOM in their vocabulary!!! tsk tsk.
Posted on October 12, 2009 13:52
some a dem gal yah fi get breed and run whe because when a good man like me wi tk care of her shi guh breed fi hype pon har friends
Posted on October 12, 2009 15:18
bwoy badmind full some people, @SUGA SUGA, y do u have to be so negative towards the topic, theres a possibility of that taking place yes but not all artiste have unprotected sex with groupies...i'm an artiste and i dont have sex with out a condom apart from my personal girl so you can't generalize dat, maybe an artiste out there gave u the virus...the thing is when u have sex its a risk these days so its not even about artiste, the garbage man weh u a deal wid can give it to u doh...A majority succumbed to the spotlight but you have those who stand by what they believe in......you have girls out there with bad reputation that i wouldn't sex, then again aids dont discriminate so i discriminate.....how much groupie u know get pregnant by an artiste??? the few that you might find are in court battle over child support and i think you know Y....
Posted on October 12, 2009 18:14
why a sensiable woman would want to get pregnant for a entertainer that is so stupid even if you think you can trust these artistes you would still be chancing it girls follow the last girl's opinion and get the ring first at least you will sure to have some to get
Posted on October 12, 2009 18:43
WELL I HAVE FRENZ WHO HAS KIDS BUY ARTIST AND THEY COMPLAIN EVERYDAY HOW THE ARTISTE ARENT SPENDING A ENOUGH TIME WITH THEM OR THE KIDS.YOU CAN GET MARRIED BUT YOU'RE MARRYING FOR THE WRONG REASON. ALWAYS REMEMBER P*S%* OR KIDS DONT KEEP A MAN. BUT AT THE END OF THE DAY ITS WHATS BEST FOR YOU.............JUS REJOICE FOR BEING THE PERFECT SINGLE PARENT CUZ THATS WAT IT LOOKS LIKE....
Posted on October 12, 2009 20:17
i wouldnt get preganant for an artist becuz thats a big headache....look pon d'angel she was married to beenie....and she get bun till she weak and when the love story over beenie waan dna test to prove seh the pickney a fi him......thats too much drama...i will stick to my local man......i dont care for artistes that much becuz every woman dem see dem want and cant bother with that lifestyle....i am very particular about my reputation and my pums...mi nuh want nuh mileage buddy.
Posted on October 12, 2009 23:46
this is living proof that these men cant be tamed nowadays artist or not, girlfriends dont think that this cant happen to you, that ur man cant get another woman pregnant. the reason i say this most of these artist have bonafide girlfriends or wifey's so some women should give up the thought that only one thing can hold a man.
Posted on October 13, 2009 06:27
So wat is so wrong wid a woman if she breed fi an artiste...not all of dem a di same...yu hav gud and bad everywhere....all Pastor we nuh wah fi mind im pickney to...so even if 1 and 2 a di artist dem a hold hard end...is not all of them doing it...
Posted on October 13, 2009 12:04
Being with an artist is a headache and stressfull. What's goin to happen when they go on tour and you are home with the kids and u have to work. Like most men the can't go a day without sex. So what do u think is goin to happen when they are on tour for months and weeks and they come home to you. HIV, AIDS, STD. They won't have time for you or the kids because they will be so busy and when that happens it will push you away little by little.
Posted on October 13, 2009 12:26
WELL I KNOW THERE'S GOOD AND BAD ARTISTE BUT AT THE END OF THE DAY YOU WILL STIL BE A SINGLE PARENT THATS MARRIED TO A BIG ARTISTE...YAAAAAH YOU JUS GRADUATED FROM BEING A WIFE TO A BABY MOMMA...LOL
Posted on October 13, 2009 12:48
no i would not want to get pregnant for any entertainer they are just too busy no time for me and my baby so i guess will just stick to the average man
Posted on October 13, 2009 16:09
I have two words for the question asked....HELL NO!!!!!
Posted on October 13, 2009 19:51
Back in the day an easy way to keep a man was to get pregnant, in today's day the fastest way to have a man leave you is to get pregnant. that in itself says enough however, if an artiste and i were in a relationship be it real or casual and i happen to get pregnant, it would not be done on purpose because if my claim to fame is trickin him into a child, then that does not say much about my values and morals.. then again we don't all have morals. as for puttin myself in his way hell no, but if it shud happen then... watever!
Posted on October 14, 2009 02:26
I dated an artist when I was in my late thirties and I was very much in love with him. For me it was'nt about having a baby,I truly love him and even after ten years has gone by I still do. He did asked me to have two children for him and I declined because I had children from a previous marriage and I was focusing on my career. I know that he would have taken care of our children based upon the fact that he took care of the ones that he have.There are artist out there who are looking for someone to love them for who they are and not someone who is seeking a meal ticket.This is my advice to the young ladies out there, if you meet an artist that shows interest in you, try to get to know him and his family before you give up the pumps. If he introduce you to his mother then you know that he really check for you. He might be the man that will bring you joy and happiness.
NOT ALL OF THEM ARE EGO TRIPPING LOOSERS.
Posted on October 14, 2009 23:05
i was involve with a NBA PLAYER,he sign a contract for us$69million. i know this may seem impossible to u people bcuz u may think am just a simple jamaican girl. atleast to him with all that money lol, but we have been dating for 2yrs, he spend more time at my house in minneapolis than i spend at his mansion. he plays for minnesota timberwolves. he is 8yrs younger than i am but i guess he just like me alot. my point is, this guy ask me everytime we made love to do it unprotected bcuz we know each other for so long although its on and off. however i refuse bcuz these guys sleep around with alot of women, everybody knows NBA PLAYERS get the most fassy but for some reason he always come back to me, even when we dont speak or see each other for months.i am not saying it didnt cross my mind to get pregnant for him, because i do but i always think about my health first. he was supose to do his physical b4 the season starts in september but i broke it off bcuz i became an asset to him rather than his girlfriend. as soon as he start giving me money, which is like butter to him, he starts acting like he is god so i couldnt take it anymore.its very hard to date a guy like this its an emotional roller coaster. u try not to fall in love but sometimes u cant help it and thats what happen to me. my friends think am a fool to have called it off with a celebrity as huge as this guy with so much money, they think am a fool for not having sex with him unprotected especially when he kept stressing me about it all the time but my health comes first. i am heart broken and it hurts when i see him on tv or even if i cant do some of the things i use to do but if i want this guy to have any respect for me i have to show him i can do without him even if i cant mentally.i have a son for a jamaican man, duane pow' YES AM CALLING HIM OUT WEEPOW SON from stone love and he doesnt even call t
Posted on October 16, 2009 11:09
I wouldn't get pregnant for an artist..or anyone for that matter...I do NOT want to have kids ever.
Getting pregnant for an artist is rather pointless. Because you know for some reason you aren't the only one. Sure, you may get a portion of his money because the child is entitled to it, but what about the other women who have his kids too?? They gotta get their share...so you're sharing this man and his money.
And these days the artistes are glamourizing this mess. Like in Vybz Kartel's Love Dem [Set Me Free Riddim], he's promoting cheating and that he HAS to have a next girl every damn night and then goes on to say he didn't mean to and his girl ought to believe him. That song irks me, because its full of contradictions.
In conclusion, any SELF ASSURED woman wouldnt need to breed for an artiste. Ladies, when your time comes to have a baby...just remember your child is not a pawn, or a key to a better life. Make sure your man loves you and is ready to maintain a family with you and only you. Having a cheating man's baby NEVERRR makes him stay..it makes him stray.
Keep that in mind.