Dear Mr. Proppa fix,
I met a girl I like in high school while I was still in Jamaica when we were teenagers. I could not come and visit her for a couple years, but I haven't stopped sending her money through western union. She told me that she’s being faithful to me and everything but once I called her on the phone one night and she answered and said "yes" "yes" "yesss" then she threw down the cell phone on the bed and thought it was turned off. All I heard was dirty talks along with sexual sounds it sounded like busy signals song "mi nah answa" in there.
I don't know what to do she takes all my plane fare why I cannot come and visit her. I can't say I’m mad -- but she is my complete equal in every way but it wasn't suppose to be like this my father had told me once that she was the one for me and I knew it the very moment our eyes meet. I even gotten into physical fistfights over her with my friends and loved it because it we were fighting for her loving eyes. I don't know what to do should I continue with this relationship I have waited a long time for her hand in marriage and need her in my life in my country.
-JR
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Dear JR,
From the tone of your letter, I can tell that you are truly in love with this girl, but on the other hand, you are far from reality.
You need to get a grip of yourself, as this girl is only using you…This is not high school days anymore, brother I know it's hard for you to believe, but she has moved on. If you really want to know, what kind of person she is then stop sending her money for a while and sees what happens.
Even though your dad gave you the thumbs-up about this girl that doesn't means he's right…from the moment you called her and she answered "yes, yes, yesss" in that aggressive tone along with the sexual sounds you heard - that's a clear indication that things are not the same anymore.
My brother "nuh put nuh woman pon yuh head."
That is my advice young man - tek it or leave it
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Posted on August 31, 2009 12:01
I think you should do as proppa fix said stop sending har money and mi can promise you that you will never get another hello from har and please fi get about getting married to that girl
Posted on August 31, 2009 12:04
young man you dont need no ones advice on this you know what the hell is up no one can help you but yourself .
Posted on August 31, 2009 12:07
hey woman can really tun man in a fool yow mi glad my mother never raise no gal clown why di f**k mi aguh send money give this gal and shi never wet up mi john as yet youth born over this life is not for you
Posted on August 31, 2009 13:22
Seriously, I don't think she was having sex when u called her. I believe she must have had her tv on, bcuz I believe she's totally faithful to u - like totally. Off course u should physically fight for her, she's worth it isn't she. And continue sending her ur money, I think she's using it to educate herself so she can be a supporting partner when u're married. I'm sure she's just a darling that u should put ur life on the line for.
Hahahaha, God know, it was hard keeping a serious face when type that first part. But seriously, how much time mi affi seh dis man. Mi seh ppl unnu stop waste time ask fi advise. Do weh unnu waan do, marry di skets if yuh want. Nuh mek nubady tell yuh different. LOL
Posted on August 31, 2009 13:33
@Can mi might name mr. lou but yuh more lou-her than mi yow mi almost laugh til mi dead mi alreayd report it to the nearest police station fi lock yuh for killing me with jokes
Posted on August 31, 2009 14:04
Dear, what excatly you want we or propperfix fi tell you? no truthfully? you all a throw fist like you a rambo if nobody say anything against you woman, a we you want get involve mek you come cuss off wi clothes? lol.. do as Can say, send the money,as a matter of fact do one better and open one account fi har and just put the money there that way you no have to call and hear no moaning and groaning a tek place.... lol ... a wonder how mi cant find one man like you? you a the last one? lmao.... DUDE GET A CLUE, she a use you, but mi see how it tempting still cause it look like you just dash way caution fi 'loving eyes'... lol...
LMAO gal no even want fi see you but u a think bout marriage?????? lmao marry har mi dear, but member this if a merica or canada you deh, as soon as paper done she gwan left you r*ss...
Posted on August 31, 2009 14:45
yow p*ssy fi get f**k from once you are not around fi f**k di p*ssy yow send mi har number mek mi gwaan f*8k har for you until yuh can mek to Jamaica
Posted on August 31, 2009 16:19
gal clown
Posted on August 31, 2009 16:34
uuno cant blame de yout cause even him fadda weh suppose to experience a tell him rubbish.so weh uuno expect. fadda a eediot, some come deh same
Posted on August 31, 2009 18:39
LOL...Weh me did deh when dem man yah a gi weh? Claffy nuh have nuttn pon dis one. My yute, yu don't need glasses fi see seh di girl a gi yuh not bun, but the whole harberdashery (sp). As sad as this is, YOU need fi mek up your mind and do what is best for you cause usually people so blindly in love don't tek talk, dem haffi come to dem own realization of their love life (or lack thereof) and change things when dem ready.
Dats my 2 cents.
Posted on August 31, 2009 19:32
My youth, its clear that ur getting not only BUN but the WHOLE BAKERY!! STOP waste u money, jah know.
Posted on September 1, 2009 05:19
My youth a you mi want fi be my brother-in-law can bet the girl not even a buy card call u maybe only when she bruk mi can imagine how she a tell the man wa did a stroke har her best client is calling haha police soon start trail her go western union she affi go start split the money so raise the bupsy pension u na nor never get any puccy so a nuh fi it pension you never know she could moan so dont?
Posted on September 1, 2009 09:38
Mi haffi laugh still. hear wah my yute, stop worry over da hoe de. best ting u do go pan a f**king spree (USE A CONDOM EVERYTIME)an clear u head. by u done dat u suppose to gud. if u no gud after, u hopeless. lol. so d world run mi don, everybody gi bun an get bun. both man an woman. life is a game, u jus haffi kno how fi play it an d tricks involved
Posted on September 1, 2009 11:09
,LEAVE THE GIRL AND MOVE ON THIS MAY SOUND A LITTLE HARSH BUT SHE USED U OK
Posted on September 1, 2009 13:44
to be honest she a use u and ur so blind to it.
Posted on September 1, 2009 15:00
cetch sense, boy. that wman usin u!
Posted on September 1, 2009 17:16
just goes to show that women can't be trusted.
Posted on September 1, 2009 19:46
Mi affi laugh....Hush ya JR..dont be too ahshame, you will not be the first guy it happened to and you sure wont be the last. Just chalk it up to experience and move on.
Hail to All JA massive...mi visit JA and i sure did FULLJOY miself!
Posted on September 1, 2009 20:50
SO DI FADDA SO DI SON. r*ssclaaaat a joke dis. dis sh*t is scripted NO MAN PON GOD GREEN LAND CAN SO FOOL MY YUTE A SHOULDA ME A JOOK OUT HAR BELLY I WOULDA SEN HER COME LOOK FI U SO U CAN WORK MORE MONEY SEN COME FI MI BUILD MI HOUSE FURNISH IT AND BUY ROUN 3 TAXI PUT PON ROAD YOU IS A FOOL. MAN LIKE U WEH SO NIEVE WI KILL YUH SELF OVA PUMMS GO SLEEP IDIOT BWOY
Posted on September 1, 2009 20:50
mi really cant believe mi own two eye them when mi read this, it must have been a joke... wata natural born idiot, because, if any intelligent person have been in that situation, would not write and ask for advise.they would of just (simple) leave that ridiculous bitch. so mi ago ask you question? mi can ave u #....lol
Posted on September 3, 2009 00:30
well that is nothing cause now i get her friend who's even prettier than her plus other girls who i've dated who will be very pissed off when i tell them the news or just show them this website either way i win. none of my girls like me dating her and even her best friend is plotting to take me from her as for hearing her scream like that...i made her scream lots of times and plus people you have to remember that 97% of girls fake their orgasims even though that guy was s*cking pum pum and if i see him i'll give him a ch*p with my l*ss...anyways if a girl isen't faking their orgasims then they most likely are having sex with one of my little cousins she has to realise there is no government around here and she knows this stop acting like a fool i'm worse than mr. marly in shattas when i return to jamaica so mek she tan there.......and she knows this so come on now i don't reconigze "girl government's"
Posted on September 4, 2009 16:09
Typical Jamaican woman, mi youth a so them stay, it is all about money
Posted on September 5, 2009 19:37
Obviously dis yute is a f**king eediat. A betta him kill himself and giv him money to charity.
Posted on September 6, 2009 13:57
Bups, puppet on a string, it is quite obvious that's what you are. It is full time you give up that ghost and move on with your life. I am assuming that you live in the US...I am sure there are other fishes in the sea. Yes, you love this person, but it is time to cut the bank string and find someone who will love you just as much as you love them.
One advice, never getting into fist fight for no woman unless it is your mother or your daughter. No woman out there is worth you risking your life or worst risking your freedom. One day you will never know how far it will reach and you will end up in jail. If you believe in God, just pray that the Lord will send you someone who is on the same page as you. Once you find that special someone, I guarantee that this other person will be a distant memory.
Posted on September 7, 2009 22:37
TEE GO SACK U MADDA! YOU KNOW EVERY JAMAICAN WOMAN. MOTHERF**KER.
Posted on September 11, 2009 15:18
believe me women are fool but i was not expecting a guy to be writhing about all that stuff. i think someone must creative a recipe book about relationship that will be your guide to a better life if you really want one.
Don't be dump if she wanted to be with you she would be adaant that yopu came and visit her whatever the cases may have been.
Posted on September 17, 2009 15:01
whateva, now i want 500 different girls every night, i can be a f**in slut also.....how much of you can mine i don't satisfy your woman in less than a minute and make her go on her way.......you think your hot, well your not i can't take you likkle cheeky bony skinny men always looking and trying to get her that is my girl and my baby mother.......so whateva.