girl what kind of question is that he's 100% faggot or him getting crazy how di hell mi could a stand seeing my man walking around the house in female clothing sick a*s nigga if him love dressing like a woman, love wearing makeup then him soon love to take big h**d too because that d*ck was design for us and since him already love dressing like a female then maybe you should guh buy a dildo and f**k him real hard

him a FAG!!!!!!

Many people will write on this board that your man is gay but he isn't. There are many many fetishes which are explored by people.

The common misconception is that a transvestite (cross dresser) is the same as a trans-sexual (someone who has had a sex change) or that (AS MANY HERE WILL SAY - is gay.

A fetish is a thing, habit or action which causes someone to become sexually aroused, but these objects aren't generally viewed by the public as sexual in nature. Some are: kissing people's feet and sucking toes, collecting and/or smelling underwear, wearing benwa balls in your pu**y, the smell of leather, having a woman with high heels walk on you or step on your balls, spanking, wearing rubber or latex etc. There are loads.

Now, your man has decided to tell you about his and the one thing you shouldn't do it ridicule him. Try to undertsand what it does for him and compromise with him - maybe ask him to only wear in the privacy of the bedroom.

Play with him in bed, take your knickers off, wrap it around his balls, that sort of thing. Obviously, it isn't something you can discuss with any and everybody because sexually many of us are still living in the 12th century and believe that anything different from the three minute missionary position is deviant.

Do some online research, open your mind. Love your man and try to understand. It may take a while but you should find that you now become more at ease with each other as he is no longer hiding a part of himself from you.

lawd ah massi, now look at this...di man alright pon all fronts except one (a cross dresser). dat one ya kinda sticky, as Nikki said - what next will he do? and dats my question too.

All mi affi tell u is this, if this is something u can work with, then by all means Marry him....but keep in mind that u r marrying a cross dresser so other female qualities may pop out of him, lol..lol.

how old are the kids, maybe u can talk to them...keep in mind these kids afto go to school and if dem friends find out that their father is a cross dresser, dat can damage them mentally/emotionally.

Another thing: How come no one bats an eyelid when a woman dresses like a man, shaves her head, puts on a hoodie or some drop down jeans and jersey?? She's cool, and tom-boyish right??

But if a man were to wear a dress in public- he'd probably be chased and beaten.I know I would certainly look twice AND I'd be talking about it.

Jus pointing out some of our foiblesWHy are we so biased and superficial??

weird situation for real I would have more than seconds thoughs about marrying a cross dresser..but u must talk about it with him for real know where it came from

Honey, gay or straight...him have a problem...and you don't want that problem rubbing off/leaving an impression on your kids...explain that to him an move on....What would the kids(are any of them boys) think if they saw him one day in womens clothes....that could mess with a child to see his/her dad dressed in womens clothes...be careful!

Yow mek mi tell unno dis, if a woman dress like man dat mean seh dem probably still av a little ting fi di*cky same way, but a man ah dress like woman mean seh ah straight nastyness unno ah keep up, man nuh fi stir sh*t pit not even ah woman sh*t pit.

Men of this world should remember that we are leaders and trendsetter, so fags like unno need fi minimize dem tings yah.!!!!!!!!

Man nuh fi behave like woman, dress like woman, talk like woman, or tek f*ck like woman, and it done deh so, no b*tty business

That situation really sticky. It come down to this tho, if you know that the guy is a fag then dont condone it but if you kno that is just a lil problem him have then stay with him and try fi help him. You know then difference, dont deny you feelings.
P.S. - UK-JA if you dont question a woman that like to dress like a man in todays society ur in denial. Most women who dress like men on the daily are gay.

nuff other ting di man coulda hide fram u too so plz nuh be blind to di situation. There definitely can be more to his fetish and just because you found out about his cross dressing habits nuh mean seh u found out everything that he may be keeping secret and sperate from his evryady life with u. by all means make this an issue with him, have frequent discussions about it and make him invite you to unerstand why the f**k he takes pleasure in dressing in women's underwear. He may be indulging in other things as well and the cross dressung thing could just be a part of it

yup thats definitely weird.you wont stop loving him just like that but i would really wonder because he sounds like he has thoughts of attracting men , even if he has not done the physical act.
Its better to find out sooner than later
you dont want to go home one day and catch him wid man?

mi a cut fast cross dresser that funny

There is no way on earth you need to marry a man that dresses like and enjoys acting like a female. Such a man must be around homosexuals often, even if he isn't one himself. And if he isn't bi-sexual then he could become soon. Do you need all of that stress? I know i personally could not lay with a man knowing he's dressing like a woman when he's not with me. You need to be an example to your kids by leaving him (especially if you have boys) to show them that IT IS NOT OK FOR A MAN TO BE A MAN BY DAY AND DRESS AND ACT LIKE A WOMAN BY NIGHT. IT IS NOT OK!!!!!!!!

Nutten sticky bout dis situation. A man is a man is a man is a man! Thru and thru! Di minute a one start to cross dress certain way him mine a go cross dress to! Dis bredda yah have an identity crisis and in my opinion him hide behind ur frocktail all dese years suh him coulda put on fi him own frock incognito!

If is true him a talk seh di clothes dem a fi him (cau u affi think to innuh, some man wi seh anyting fi hide di fact seh dem a bun u wid next ooman), dis bredda yah was dishonest with u from the beginning! Mi sure is not yessideh or di day b 4 him know weh him like "laces and pink", dat fukka did know dat looooong time...suh why not let u in on di secret earlier? Why mek dat decision fi u and mek u involve wid him till pickney come into play? Suh now u well in u rights not to trust him and wonda wah else him hiding. Yuh si, dis is just what him wanted to happen...him mek sure seh u hook to him wid pickney, and him being a model father, suh dat when him "come out" u would turn a blind eye because him is such a good man. Well mek mi tell u dis: Good men don't go around dressing in women's clothing and not level wid u about dem fetishes beforehand! Good men ar honest about any little abnormalities dem have and mek di women in question know about dem! Dis raas man is not a "Good Man!" Him is a fucking fruity psychopath! I can bet u any money seh di clothes that u found by "accident" were intentionally left for u to find! Yuh nuh si how quick him ax u fi married him now...why him nevva did do dat from long time eeenh? Yuh know why...is dat him feel seh now u and di pickney dem cyaan do widdout him at dis point. He is selfish!

I believe him lover want him to tek di next step and ur man nuh ready fiddi world know weh him is suh him using u and di children as him shield! Him want to married u suh dat him can hide him dutty lifestyle behind u because u will naively vouch for him at all times because him is a "Good man" U will accept dat him love for wearing womens' clothing is a fetish. If it was just a fetish, I believe him woulda a share dat wid u long time. Sometimes u woulda si him a try on u blouse, him woulda waan incorporate it inna unnuh bedroom life, subtly first and den eventually out wid it! U woulda si him waan try on all u panty...my girl trust mi, little tings him would do would hint u towards dese tings cause a person with a fetish would not have been able to keep it from their partners for so long...subconsciously it woulda come out ...instead..him tek great pains to hide dem tings yah from u consciously...di man deh a wobble! Plenty more mi coulda seh pon dis matter but mi tink u should get di picture by now.

At di end of di day young lady...if u feel uncomfortable enuff fi write Proppafix bout dis, it tell mi one thing, u know what u must do, but u would like someone to tell u otherwise. I think u done reason this thing out fi uself areddy. My recommendation..go with u guts...a woman's intuition is usually right...u use it on the children...now use it on urself. Good Luck and remember...time wounds all eels!

Yeah man, marry him, nuh mek nuhbody tell yuh different. Hahaha, damn fool!

You really write properfix fi this????? answer mi that? marry him as CAN SAY and then the two a uno can go a victoria secret and you can borrow him pretty blouse and skirt and him can do the same... MI rass lol.....

Baby girl - its up to u, prayers work- try it.

Loy

YUP HE'S GAY: Why would i want a man in my house dress like me and what kind of message would i be sending to my children. YOU NEED TO KICK HIS A*S TO THE CURVE AND MINE HIM CURRUPT U PICKNEY DEM.

lol meleon i totally agree with you if him was a cross dresser long time him would a slip up long damn time the way him hide this is like a true closet case homosexual lol girl look within yourself think hard on all the signs cause sometimes you see certain things and ignore them cause you in denial ...

listen mi if dis man wah fi dress like a b*tch its only a matter of time b4 him a go wah walk like a b*tch talk like a b*tch and start teck d*ck like a b*tch dat if the he/she nuh start aready, my girl dis man yah got b*ttyman intention kick the b*tch out a di house b4 di he/she curope yu pickney dem, wat a punk firebun fi dat deah freek.