Maybe your man is not pleasing you properly hence you always resorting to 'self-love.' Still, my advice is to you is to be upfront about it. Alot of these relationships lack communication between partners and how else do you expect to be satisfied if you dont TELL him you're not satisfied? Sit him down talk to him about your habit [nothing is wrong with a little self loving every now and then] and maybe you two can come to a solution so he can get his nut and you can get yours. While you're waiting for your man to get home, occupy yourself with something, clean the house, cook a nice meal, fix the bed with rose petals. Or go to the mall and buy yourself some nice lingerie and some edible oils and such, so that way you can spend the evening loving your man. And we all know you cant/shouldnt masturbate in the mall.

Hope this works and all the best to you!
:)

IF YOU WANT SATISFACTION GARANTEED JUST WAIT TILL HIM COME HOME AND START MASTURBATE. IN FRONT OF HIM TRUST ME IT WORK LIKE A CHARM.

BELIEVE THIS IF YOUR BOYFRIEND WAS DOING YOU RIGHT YOU WOULD NOT MASTURBATE BEFORE HE COMES HOME. YOU NEED COUNSELING; MAYBE YOUR NOT ATTRACTED TO HIM ANYMORE.

mi knoo nuff ah unnoo ah goo disagree but if yuh nuh have nuh feeling fi yuh man f**k ah womann all meen intoo is penetration trust me a woman does it better lol

diomondeyes has a valid point. your man need to make love to you not have sex or intercourse..
dem man now ah days only wan fi ram it an jam it. dem nah wan tink bout di oman dem.. it's all about pleasing each other.

if yah pretty, call me..

That is my advice young lady - tek it or leave it

Retrace your steps-when did u first started masturbating? Which gives you greater sexual satisfaction, you or your man? Then work on getting your man up to your level by first telling him what you do that he doesn't. If he can measure up to your level then keep him (and any good man should be able to) and stop masturbating. If he can't, then dump him and get another man or stay with the tried, tested and proven - YOURSELF!!

I would like to start out by saying that there is nothing wrong with masturbating, unless you have a partner, now your partner should be meeting your sexual needs,I might not be that you partner not doing things right but you don't make time, most girls like to believe that sex is only for the bed room, well its not it's for anywhere you wont get caught in any position that pleases and as often as you want it to happen, but if you don't do these thing it will cause you to do things like cheating and/or masturbating, now if one partner feels the urge for sex it shouldn't matter where the other partner is or where it happens, it all about pleasing yourself and your partner, anything you do in the bedroom can be done anywhere else as long as you don't expose yourself to the public, an take it from me, that is good sex.

I cannot give you a solution to your problem, but I can tell you you are not alone. I am a guy and I too suffer from an addiction to masturbation (and porn) which wreaks havoc on my Christianity and may even be affecting my marriage. I have been trying for years to stop, but there are many obstacles.
There are not many sex addict treatment centers like there are smoking, drinking and drug ones.
This type of addiction does not seem as destructive so I would excuse it and after some success I would relapse.

Some things I have read that work are having someone to hold you accountable, or seek professional help. Hope we both defeat this.

hahahahahahahaha yes mad one

i never thought about masturbation... i am too asexual these days. Anyways you need to find a job to keep yourself occupied. Maybe u chose sex over ur BF because cannot satisfy u, but u need to be str8 with him

Heres what I think, and this is coming from a girl who love to do it too. who have up her good good man dat shi haffi wait 4 a evening time and sometimes cant hol it BUT WILL NOT F**K PON HAR MAN!!!!!

1) u need to let your man know so dat u can involve him in the ting if u really cant wait. Proppa Fix come in like a bl**dclaat pastor or deacon from wey day.. him nah chat nuh realistic sh*t... masturbation CAN become an addiction and embaraasment but from my experience if u involve u man inna di ting him will monitor u pon it and also HE WILL START BUS' OUT HIM SOUL CASE TO GIVE U SOME REEEEEEAAAAL GOOD SEX.... Call him, text him some flirty shit and when him reply get off on dat

2) alright if u gonna do it, do it early... when u know u babez bout 2 come home soon JUST WAIT 4 HIM.. do like me light up a spliff and gwaan wait till him 4ward.(lol.. sorry mi a gi u a next habit u nah go can kick). cuz i know dat feeling of not wantin 2 be touched after u done deal wid uself... it nuh fair 2 the man still so u HAVE 2 give yourself a cut off time.. Couple hrs b4 him 4ward or something.. it nuh fair 2 him so u have to be considerate on dat part... dont mek it turn into any more of a vain selfish ting

3) like someone say up above JUST WAIT 4 HIM to come home then as him drop in just tell him sit down and watch u. Dat a go drive him mad... tell him pay attention but u haffi be subtle about that part cuz no man wants to feel like them not pleasin dem woman. he may well be pleasin u, but I KNOW that an orgasm from bate-ing up yourself (hush babes mi a mek joke affa miself too) is different from a c*cky orgasm. memba that a woman can get at least 3 type of orgasm and what a finger hit is not where the dik hit so UNU STOP SAY DI MAN NAH B*DDY HAR GOOD. explain 2 u man dat a nuh buddy alone bring orgasm n u discover urself and u want him fi c how u drive uself mad.... gotta be real cute about this one cuz again u dont want to dun the man pride n his c*cky game...

aint no shame in the game if u love bate up uself just haffi balance it with the real and the honest with ur man..

Nothin wrong with masturbation, ive had many women who do it regularly, thing is they still wanted penetration after. It shouldnt be a secret, masturbate in front of ur man it will turn him on and it might lead to a good time. If you have to keep masturbating and he can't satisfy you then, your gonna need to leave him or you'll soon be cheating on him. First step tho is honesty, tell di man seh him nah handle the kitty propa. and a next point dont be afraid to lead the man. tell him what u need to get ur fix. nuh a unnu woman love act too shy. man love "freaky" things. Every one a we. trust me!!!

clitoral
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Look cum clean wid u
Man before this blow up in ur face

It always makes me laugh when people show how closed minded they are.

Masturbation=disease/addiction??? Bloody Hell! A time some people come outa di back-wall-cave weh dem live eena!

To the original poster: Some ladies have given very good advice. Remember also my dear that you are experiencing self discovery. Once you know what makes YOU happy, teach him. Because of the way our society is, everything apart from missionary position seesm to be taboo and as soon as one tried anything else, one labelled a 'freak'. That's every sad.

From experience, us ladies know that a self induced orgasm can be achieved in a much shorter time and with less hassle than with a man. What you ought to do is speak to him about the things you like. The best time is when you're both involved in a hot session. Just gently ask him to 'do it like this' or do it infront of him. If he's a reasonable man, hell want to please you but if he is of the 'back-a-wall variety', he will label you and possibly accuse you of other things. It's pretty much up to you as only you know your partner well.

Just make sure you allow him some time to learn.

Good Luck

@Anonymous, July 22 9:22pm.

I am curious, why do u do it often if u have yr wife? Is it a urge u have that you cannot stop? Seek help please.

At Milton Scott, good point in saying go search and see when did this all started.

Believe it or not, in consensus with most of the people here, it's quite apparent that you are not satisfied with your man. Have a serious, but calm, talk with him. Let everything out in the open.

Talk about your desires, your fantasies, your likes, what you want from him. Don't be rude, but be explicit.

Does he work during regular hours? Call him and let him know how much you want him to f**k your brains out.

Bottom line -- talk to him!

Always Watching,
DADDY LION CHANDELL

B*tch get a f**king job, bout u masturbating 3 times a day.