pray, and ask god to help you, i was in a similar spot and i prayed and it gradually going away.

my girl tun lesbian if yuh feel like but make sure when yuh going to f**k yuh gal call me because mi love di threesome thing

i am so sorry to let you know that you are already a lesbian from once yuh pussy get wet fi another girl

girlfriend c*cky a di best thing god put pon dis land yuh need fi allow yuh self fi get some good fuck and get rid of those nasty thoughts of yours. tell me what the hell yuh can get from a girl more than lick yuh clit man lick clits too and dem have something hard force up inna mi belly and even thought it hot mi still can't get enough

I wouldn't say that she's a lesbian as yet....id say she's curious and maybe her man isn't doing what he needs to do the right....maybe her man is too rough and not in tune with her needs.....maybe she needs a more sensitive guy.....sometimes men turn women to be lesbians because of how harsh we tend to be at times.

My advice would be for her to avoid naked encounters with other females because even though men won't admit it....a lot of them check out their male friends in the locker room or wherever they see a nekid dude....its not a regular occurance but it does happen....

I suggest you talk to your male partner about this if you think he can help you.....don't label yourself as a lesbian as yet as this will probably give you more justification to go ahead and divulge in these acts.

I think more than 60 percent of females are curious but most don't get overcomes by the feeling.

Stay positive and get more active...this will keep your mind from wandering away and thinking too much about sex.

@mr.lou, ur one crazy dude lol..WELL I WENT THROUGH THE SAME FEELING AND I ACTED ON IT, IT LASTED FOR AN YEAR AND IT ALMOST DROVE ME CRAZY IN EVERY WAY. IT WAS GOOD BUT IT TURNED OUT TO BE A POSSESSIVE FEELING. I WAS EMOTIONALLY DRAINED FROM ALL THE NEGATIVE CONFUSING FEELINGS AND BEHAVOR I EXPERIENCED. I GUESS WHAT AM TRYING TO SAY IS....IF YOU WANT TO TRY IT JUST BE PREPARED TO EXPERIENCED ALOT OF DIFFERENT EMOTIONS,SIN, DISGUST, BUT ALSO PLEASURED AND FULFILLMENT. HOWEVER I THINK ITS A PHASE AND YOU CAN GET PASS IT WITHOUT HAVING TO GO THRU ALL THIS MESS. I DID IT AND GOT IT OUT OF MY SYSTEM AND I DONT LOOK AT GIRLS THAT WAY ANYMORE, SO I DONT BELIEVE I WAS A LESBIAN, I WAS JUST CURIOS AND HORNY AT THE TIME I GUESS, LOL. BELIEVE ME YOU CAN EVEN GET YOUR HEART BROKE NOT TO MENTION BEEN POSSESSIVE OVER THE GIRL THAT BRING YOU OUT. LEAVE IT ALONE,FIND A MAN THATS GOING TO EAT YOU AND ROMANCE YOU AND TOUCH YOU LIKE A DELICATE FLOWER THE WAY A GIRL DOES LOL. THATS MY ADVICE TEK IT ARE LEAVE IT

ladies if you have di thought to turn lesbian, give me a call, cuz you're infected with "Lack of Good Sex" and mi have di remedy..lmao

Its not a bad thing to have these feelings but it can turn out in a negative way....so I suggest that you find some activities to occupy your mind instead of the thoughts of another woman, do not all yourself to be around naked women....you have to have a mindset not to do anything like that. You are not a lesbian just curious as to how it would feel

lawwwd this woman gone star

as far as i'm concern she is jus curious n sumtimes we all act on our curiosity whether it is bad r gud n i don't tink wateva ne 1 seh wil mek a difference if shi wyan act pon it r not dats my opinion.

U just curious bbz
But a you have control over yourself.
Suh if u curious go private with you feelings but tell your man maybe he will find interest in it :)

she too f**kin nasty ,all lesbian and fish fi d*ad,especially di fish dem,if me start have feelin fi anoda man(which me know nah happen)me woulda prefa d*ad,natural way is God's way,trusme

bwoy my girl, I would say try not to act on those feelings. If u r not gay the feelings will pass. Curiosity gets the best of folks at times and this is something in life that once u cross that line, u wont be able fi sey u neva sample ah woman b4. A sure hope it works out for the best for you.

babes just come by me lets f**k and u will forget about all the girls in your life or if not me tek some bud it will cool u done

how do you develop feelings for a person who have the same basic things as you do is the real question.

I dont think being a lesbian disgusting.It might not be what society designed for women, but society is doing what they say is wrong in many ways too. To each his or her own.Girl if u feel like u have a fantasy act up-on it. I have lesbian/bi female friends and they function like normally.

I absolutely loveeeeeeeeee!!!!!!!!!! girls they turn me the f****k on girl satify yourself what r u waiting for me love both co***k and pum pum so mi no know A weh unu a talk bout.

Proppa fix, what the hell kind of answer is that? You're opinions are supposed to be unbiased, but based on what I wrote that's far from it. How the hell are u gonna tell the girl that she'll be committing the most disgusting sin ever if she ever hook up with another woman? And then tell her to ask god to deliver her from her sins, do u not have any sins? Stop being so damn judgemental and hyprocritical about her wanting to maybe just be curious and explore her sexuality? Grow the hell up and give some sound advice. With ur B.S. column. Let me ask u, isn't adultery, stealing and fornication a sin? How is it that u dont talk about these things being very BIG sins in ur other letters, where people write to u and ask for ur advice about them doing these things. Because you're a hypocrite. In your eyes it's ok for someone to cheat, lie and fornicate, than it is for them to have THOUGHTS about being with someone of the same sex. Go find a real job, because advice is not your fortay. That is my advice, tek it or leave it. Dogs**t.!!!

EH GYAL CALL ME TO B*MBO CLATTT YUH ZEE IT YUH ZEE IT
DAT MIE SEH..

I meant to say what " but based on what *U* wrote, not what I wrote.

my girl c*cky is the best ting yuh can think bout.how can u even think about going to another woman that is a sin and yuh jamaican my girl tek weh yuh self and get a life yuh disgusting like me nuh know wah fi seh...ole lesbian gal.

@ME......how di f**k u fi say she is not wrong for wanting to explore her sexuality? she can get a man or use her finger to explore,f**kin another lady?that is so f**kin disgusting, 2girls?me personally want all queers and their kinds d*ad,me remember one lesbian gal get g*nshot because of that now she is crippled in a wheel chair,lol! so what if other persons sin? u all think every sin is sin,but sin comes naturally,the FISHY sin is soooooo not natural, adultery is sin but it is natural, sex between male and female...big difference.no b*mbo clawt mercy!

you can not chose to be gay or str8...simple you are born that way! this woman says she is disgusted at what she is thinking BUT yet can not help herself...why? Because you can not run from your selfconscience! Simple you are a lesbian or maybe bisexual...you can not help it! If ppl could chose do you think they would chose dis type of lifestyle that is seen as morally wrong? No they wouldn't! Church can not help her...she is what she is....argument done :)

Sorry Proppafix, your answer sucked.

My advice is:

First of all, Dont listen to Proppafix's advice, it was biased and religious driven and any good advice columnist should know that they should never inforce their religion in their advice, rather give you a solution that would work for you.

Second of all, In my opinion, you are not becoming a lesbian. You may be one of the many women who are sexually aroused by sexual beings may it be a man or a woman. Whether you want to act on those feelings is entirely up to you. Don't watch no face, you dont have to live up to anyone's expectations.

Thirdly, if you want to rid yourself of your sapphic thoughts, you should surround yourself with men. See how your libido reacts when you're touched by a man, dont get discouraged if your goodies dont get wet for him...it takes a special type of man to get the kitten purring.
If you feel as though you cant get the same reaction from a man as a woman...then maybe you want to play for the other team. And regardless of what these naysayers say, your lifestyle is NOT wrong. Live for yourself and only you.

Take care of yourself and I wish you the best on your journey to self discovery.

@cocodolce, thank u very much for that response. Very well said. ignorant ass WAPPY should take note, but once again hypocrite WAPPY, adultery is natural, what the hell? I will not even comment because ignorance is BLISS. In ur case, ur just a close minded Jacka**.

I really DON'T care about the above article but have to ask one question to CocoDOLCE... you feel your 'born' gay right??? Because your reasoning for this is that you wouldn't choose something morally wrong. So you have to be created like that.. Am I right? So a rapist defence like 'Judge I don't know what's wrong with me i can't seem to help myself or stop this behaviour, i was just born like this you honour' That's correct and they are speaking the truth? Because remember someone wouldn't choose to live a morally wrong lifestyle and that's just WHO THEY ARE? Lmao you'all love to spit in god's face right?.. Being gay is a CHOICE,and don't say no-one would choose to be taunted and mistreated, If u don't believe me, look at the PUNK ROCK MOVEMENT, or The Gothic subculture.. These people weren't born 'weird they CHOOSE THAT LIFE STYLE... In the states that life-style is degraded and seen as almost devil like even, but that doesn't stop them from living it... JUST as a gay person, they feel what they are doing is justified and are entitled to live life how they feel and they STAND FOR THAT.So dear sorry to burst ur bubble, homosexuals CHOOSE that life, they weren't created or born like that...

Mr PropaFix

I think your advice is oh so biased and you were rather judgemental and condescending towards that young lady. She asked for advice I'm sure she didn't come to you so you could patronize her. Point of advice to you, you need to acquire professional training before you seek to "advise" the masses.

Sister this world is evil and what you need to realize is that the Devil is trying to seduce people into being evil. Thats why faggots are on TV, and on cartoons, and on the radio, and in magazine etc...

It's all to SEDUCE you, that's why you are feeling like you are becoming a certain, way because you are being SEDUCED into evil. You can (and BETTER) resist! I would recommend that you keep yourself away from things that display women in lustful manners. (which is a lot you have to keep your guard up).

Know this, when you do what your flesh has been imagining you will feel DIRTY. Every lesbian knows that they are doing wrong! They know that what they are doing DOES NOT FEEL RIGHT they just like to portray it in the media like its the greatest thing! NO ITS NOT!

mi did know long time that toni, so what, melon, tacious were all gays because uhnu always backing each other fir pon uhnu proppa fix is right it's f**king sin even though mi like si two girls making out but at the end of the day it's wrong how the hell can she be thinking about p*ssy when shi have p*ssy to nelly big up yuh self

@Toni...ur a complete and utter moron! u are comparing apples to oranges Nuff said I have no time or use for ppl like you! Next time come wid argument please come proper! Mi dun

Mr. Lou.... lmao..... oh u silly creature, how did i become gay now? answer that mumma lashy?

@Toni look in the mirror and tell me what you see a undercover lesbian waiting to explode so guess what go f**k your self with your dutty finger nail

Mirror, Mirror on the wall can you please tell this lesbian who shi are

yo mek mi sey sumtin,, a wha unu feel like,,a pure lesbianism mi hear n see frm di other day,,unu fi stop it,,mi fed up now,,n not only coz ure havin these feelings,,coz of sum waist man, them fi calm n relax wit them woman,,n touch up,n kiss up,gentle n soft,,n stop wit tha ruffness,,n nu evry gyal like them stff deh,,,bowy mi nuh knw wat tha world a cum to,,coz mi nuh knw wat mi ago do,,if evry gyal turn lesbian,,mite as well mi chuk off a one bridge,,,my girl cant hav tose feelings,,ya mad,,unu watch to much porn!!! n turn freaky,,bout u get wet!!

so much name calling unnu cyaa express opinion without callin each odda out?

@mumma lashy lou.. nails quite clean dear as a matter of fact, they were just did.. Also I play not with my finger have no need to. undercover lesbian??? you better pray for ur sake I stay straight as an arrow because if i was a lesbian i think it would be nothing but a word to take u gal from u... lol u better think long and hard before mi start prove to u, leave a sleeping lioness...

Cocodolce... why not answer what i ask you? If i am a moron come educate this moron and show evidence to proof that sexuality is what ur born with.. Moron waiting dear!

Hey Toni, girl! Dem call wi out again!

Mr. Lou, you need to take your dumba*s self up outta here, you ignorant son of a swine! I've told you off many of times, guess I gotta do it again. I'm sure recreation time is over at the mental facility you reside.
And besides, why you even calling Meleon's name and the woman hasnt even replied yet??
You see how you're so quick to bitch! One day someone's gonna shoot you in your mouth...trust me on that.

Anyways, I have a boyfriend whom I am VERYY happy with. So calm yourself. I am not going to change my opinions just because you THINK I'm gay. You're just mad because you cant articulate yourself and dumb as f**k. A goat has more intelligence than you.

The young woman is clearly at a stage of confusion and she was brave enough to send her email where people are NOT going to be nice. I dont care, if she is what she is, then SO F**KING WHAT! What's it to you?? Is she your daughter, sister, niece, aunt?!?!? NO SHE'S NOT. SO BACK THE HELL OFF!

Mr. Lou, you seem like a righteous a*s fellow so why are you judging??? Let he without sin cast the first stone. Whatever sin the lady has done GOD will deal with it. Last time I checked you aint God. You probably have sex with 13 year olds, you seem like a perverted old fuck.

DUN WID YUH!

GOOD MORNING TONI AKA RAINBOW COLOURS A GUESS YUH KNO WHAT DAT MEAN WHEN MI CALL YUH RAINBOW COLOURS

THAT'S YUH HOMEWORK TONI AKA RAINBOW COLOURS

Anybody here seh this is ok nuh believe in a God. Thats a demon spirit that needs deliverance.

@MR.LOU....HONEY I WASNT GAY, I WAS SIMPLY GAY-CURIOUS. GO IT OUT OF MY SYSTEM , GOT FULFILLED AND PRAYED FOR FORGIVENESS AND MOVED ON. LOL

I am cracking up...Hail Mr Lou...Give Thanks fi di Big up!

@Toni/Tacious - why unnu mek Mr. Lou ah draw unnu tongue, unnu nuh memba sey Man always pick pon women wey them like. lol..lol

@mumma lashy... I have a pair of air force in those same colours quite cute i must say... Anyways if i already know it like you say why the need for homework???? I see ur not the brightest crayon in the box huh?

@nelly... lol nelly , miss lou no have the power fi draw top nor bottom tongue so mi really nah pay this no mind... mi tell him no start give mi no idea because mi will act pan it just fi tek way him gal and mek him bawl eye water and start walk and kick rocks... lmao

@ Nelly,
Mr. Lou LOVE MI OFF! He's my number one fan, aint that right Lou boo?!?! LMFAO
That man is always on my damn clit!!

Lol,this thread is off the hook!

@WAPPY
I could not believe that a thing like u could LOL about someone ending up in a wheechair bcause she is a lesbian. I am just so angry that I am shaking.( I am happily married with 5 boys bcause I know some old dead carrion wi seh is bcause me gay to why me so upset so I will just get that part out the way).Anyway DUTTY BWOY WAPPY I hope u get SHOT and end up in a wheelchair for whatever reason and I will see how u are going to like it because I bet u that will be your future or even better I hope u get HIT BY A BIG BIG INDUSTRIAL TRUCK and just SIT ONE SIDE AND SUFFA SO THAT U CAN SIT AND THINK and I hope that someone will LOL about your situation so u will know what it feels like.To the young lady with the feelings for women INDULGE IN IT AND GET IT OUT OF YOUR SYSTEM U ARE NOT GAY U ARE JUST CURIOUS IF NOT U ARE STILL GOING TO BE PLAGUED BY THOSE FEELINGS.REGARDLESS OF WHAT THESE SAINTS ARE SAYING UP TO 60% OR MORE OF WOMEN AND MEN IF THEY ARE HONEST HAVE THESE FEELINGS.LIVE YOUR LIFE FOR U AND NOT PEOPLE.HE OR SHE WITHOUT SIN CAST THE FIRST STONE.PROPPA FIX U NEED A PROPPA FIX BEFORE U GIVE ADVICE TO MILLIONS.(1)Take ur personal feelings out of the equation when giving advice and remember Sin doesn't mean one thing go do the 3 RE:RETRAIN,RELEARN AND REBORN.It is my advice TAKE IT OR LEAVE IT

Tacious and Toni always represent. But how about everybody mind their own business and stay out of the next mans bedroom...I'M JUST SAYING...Why don't you all slam these old men dating young girls, why you all don't slam all the cheating? It seems that everybody is talking but nobody is looking or listening.

Apparently, I got to this one a bit too late.

Still in all, what I have seen in this article is typical of what I expected to see: Men (and a few women) who defend God and the natural male/female balance and women who want to see a confused female cross over to the depraved, dark side of social destruction.

Hear this, people. There is no need nor any excuse for anyone to engage in sexual relations with people of the same sex. If you fall into the trap of socialized and indoctrinated weakness, then you will remain weak.

If a woman is fighting feelings of homosexuality, by all means, we should all encourage her to remain strong and continue to fight, continue to resist a behavior which systematically institutes hatred of self, hatred of men, hatred of God, hatred of humanity, and disrespect and disregard for life.

Ms. "Am I" needs to meditate, focus her sexual energies, and surround herself with men who possess positive, healthy attitudes about love and sex. From there, she can find the one that peaks her interest, and eventually help HER peak!

Men know what to do to satisfy a woman.
It's all about which one you pull up to.

Swimming in the same-sex cesspool doesn't work.

Always Watching,
DADDY LION CHANDELL