Dear sir I am a 19-year-old female with a little problem, the thing is I met this guy about a month and couple days ago who is very cute and sexy.
Within the first two weeks, he started requesting sexual pleasures, it’s not that I don't want to but I have told him a big lie and I think it will affect our relationship.
When I just met him, we shared our likes and dislikes. We then started talking about sex during our discussion he told me that he always fantasized about making love to a virgin. At the time, I wanted to impress him so I told him that he was looking at his fantasy.
I really need your advice on this one because I am so in love with this guy, I don't know why I did not speak the truth but I guess it’s a female thing. Right now, we are not on good terms because he thinks I am playing by not wanting to have sex with him. The other day we were all set to go out then he called and told me if we are not going to have sex, it makes no sense seeing each other. Please tell me what to do, I don't want to lose him.
- I Lied
Dear I Lied,
Everyone has a fantasy and would love in their lifetime to be able to explore it. Some people never in their lifetime get to do that and the ones, who think they can, spend an excessive amount of time trying to "fulfill their fantasies.
I hate to break it to you but the only thing that this guy is really interested in is fulfilling his fantasy because you waved it right in front of his face. If a man can give you an ultimatum after just meeting him for a month about having sex, ask yourself, after this has happened, what next?
The only way you can resolve this issue is by coming clean and telling him that you have lied and that he should give you a chance to prove that you are not a serial liar. If he likes you as much as he says that, he does, he will be hurt but he will stick around. This may sound very cliché but always remember to "speak the truth and nothing but the truth.
All the best- this is my advice young lady - tek it or leave it.
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