
Dear ProppaFix, I really need your advise on this one I am nineteen years of age and I live with my boyfriend he is 25. This year will be three years since we have been together. This guy does everything he can for me, he pay all the bills have sex with me whenever I want however I want it and goes out with me and takes the best care of me.
When I first started to date him I wasn't in love with him, I just did it for the convenience, however I have a little feeling for him. My problem with him his he don't know what he is doing financially he is always in debt and I am not sure about his goals - he seems to be very reluctant. He doesn't have a passport a license or try to get a visa and all these little things.
She's In Love With Another Man
I am in love with this other guy. He lives with his girlfriend and he as a very busy job and he also have his son which does not live with him so he have to attend to him. I don't know why but I am so in love with him we have a very good reasoning ability we talk about anything and when we make love he seems to enjoy it so much. We have sex anywhere anytime. But sometimes he is too busy for me like he haven't gotten me anything for my birthday saying he is so busy. I don't know what to do, I don't want to stay and hurt the guy that I am with because he wants a child and I don't want to get pregnant for him the other guy lives with his woman and I don't want to come out and then end up alone but my heart is not at home I don't know what to do.
-Confused Girl
Dear Confused Girl,
It may appear that way, but the grass is not always greener on the other side of the fence! In addition, the man always looks better in another woman's arm! If your man doesn’t have the drive to do certain things, help him! Motivate him...That is one of the reasons you are there... you may be surprised what a little encouragement from you can do.
You mentioned in your letter that he does everything he can for you and pay all the bills so, have you ever stop to think that this might be his reasons for always being in debt? Also speak to your man about children...get him to understand that now is not the time for getting kids as this will only create more debts.
I notice you only write about what he should be doing for you but what about you...what are you doing for yourself....you are pretty young and have a lot of time on your hands...go back to school, do something with your life and stop depending on men for fulfillment...It is obvious that this other guy is NOT interested in you, he just wants to have sex and if you are giving it up, he will definitely take it. Another thing, your intentions are so wrong, why would you want to wreck the other guy's relationship.
All the best- this is my advice young lady - tek it or leave it.
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Posted on May 6, 2009 11:37
this girl sound like shi only want di man fi dem things now that her man things done shi looking else where my girl if you had mek use of what the man gave to you would not be complaining but more like helping di man back on his feet, you nothing but a low down dirty regular b*tch
Posted on May 6, 2009 12:08
These "girl" sounds like she needs to go back to school so she can articulate herself better! Her grammer is awful! she sounds like she only wants her man for one thing: Money Hunny! she needs to motivate herself and take care of her own sh*t so she can fcuk whoever she wants :)
Posted on May 6, 2009 12:14
Now mi have to laugh... My girl u very low down.. You is nothing but a user. Your boyfriend good enough fi give you him things, tek care a you as you say but fi u provide him with little encouragement it HARD. Now you go out and start wine other woman man that only see you as 7/11 and a him you love? lol... Mi granny always say BIRD THAT FLY TOO FAST FLY PAST THEM NEST and you a fly at a rass speed.... A hope you man find out and kick you dutty rass to the curb and a hope the other woman find out and beat you with har shoes heel.. You too damn low down...
Posted on May 6, 2009 12:59
Mi sey mi hate dem dutty f**ka yah, it was convenient for you to live with him,now you red eye and waan people man.
Listen no one wants you!do you have a visa,a passport, a license? You made your bed now lay dung! Lay dung dutty gal!!!!!!!!!!
Posted on May 6, 2009 13:21
Likkle gyal! Yuh sound like u in di making to b a real ole tief! Sound to me dat u is an upcoming Gold-Digger! All mi can seh, is dat di one a yaad fi find out bout u slutish ways and dump u raas, and di one a road fi pitch u weh like dem ole playout top-ten record (afta him ooman done cut u a*s)!
LOLOL@Toni: Give it to ar deh fimmi! Mi too tyad fi address di likkle "tekiesha" deh tiddeh. Di day gwine come when shi look back and wish shi did love and respect ar man....shi mussi tink seh dem kine a man deh nuff outa road.
If a just sex, money and people man u want out a life likkle gyal...business still a gwaan a New Kingston innuh ...di ongle ting seh, u affi compete widdi b*ttyman dem and u will nevva mek as much money, cau p*ssy nuh deh pon price again. Mi gaan get some rest yaah...chuh!
Posted on May 6, 2009 13:52
You know meleon, she must think say good man like that just dash way.. She shoulda glad and hold on tight like vice-grip pan a man that treat har so good... lol u no see a idiot.. Sex can stay, it's so over rated plus that man not even want har, him want a slam cause a so most man stay but it no look like him ago left fi him good woman fi gal way can't wash har baggy good... Cow never know the use a them tail til them lose it, i hope this man find out the old harlot him have and move har up... Damn fool!... A uno (gold-digger) cause most man fi behave so and no trust woman....
Posted on May 6, 2009 13:56
yow Toni!....hahaha... u nasty up ar nasty raas! my youth mi not even ago bother diss ar to blodclaat cause u already hit d nail pan di head, big up youth!
Posted on May 6, 2009 13:57
It is female like you that gives decent, honorable female lakka miself bad name. It is obvious that this man is trying with you, but oh no, u want wey u cannot have. Where is the support that you should provide to the man that is helping you? yu will soon experience what is called - want all, lose all.
Posted on May 6, 2009 14:21
@jordane .. thanks dear but i'm a female ... lol....
Posted on May 6, 2009 14:30
well girl all i can say is, keep doing what ur doing n c how far it will take u. ur mentality is messed up therefore it wont be long for you to fall on ur face totally as a result of your impudent character.....girls like u who take things fo granted always ends up with nothing, once u come across as the girl on the side with another man u wont be considered wife material think about it...e.g say ur dating me and i know for fact that u have a man likewise u know that i have a girl but u still continue to have sex with me thats classified as cheating right...now do u think i would want u as a personal girl? the ansa is NOOOOO bcoz u can say ur devoted to me while creeping with some otha guy, therefore u will always endup with nothing, well then again u might lack pride so u'll do wateva but rememba yuh write yuh own recommendation......girls like u are not reputable after everything comes out n ur 1 of de reasons y i find it hard to trust a female, in turn the good suffer fo de bad so sum1 always end up getting hurt unintentionally......ur a dirty opportunist, YUH WORSTA DAN DE GAL DEM WEH SELL PON STREET, U WILL ALWAYS BE A TRASH n SOONER OR LATA U WILL REGRET UR MISGUIDED ACTIONS DOWN DE LINE....
Posted on May 6, 2009 15:57
My girl the man just a f**ck you on the side , you not really is real gal. The real wife at home. Cant you see busy to get you a birthday gift. Maybe you need to go find a real job and stop depend on the people them son. The guy you are with maybe know is goals. it doesnt seems like you know your goals at all. Wise up you ar ejust another slam for him.
You are stupid because, you get some one who do everything for you and because he may be in debt you bunning him. You are a dumb b*tch , he maybe in debt because of your want want issue.
GO GET A JOB AND BE INDEPENDENT. HOW COMES YOU DONT MENTION WHAT JOB YOU DO!!!
Posted on May 6, 2009 16:23
no need to go pon home girl so hard, she's only 19, she's still a child.
1)But on the other hand what the rass a 19 year old ah do living with man?
2)How could she thing she gonna be # 1 when she already shown she's willing to be #2?
3)What the world is coming to with these young harlot sluts. so jA set up.
Mi sorry fi the world
Posted on May 6, 2009 17:32
in time like dis mi dear if u av a good man u better treat im right and hold on pon him cuz loving a man cuz sex naaah wuk out again wat u doing for ur self? eh gal left ppl man alone
Posted on May 6, 2009 21:12
only thing mi a say fcuking jezzebel
Posted on May 7, 2009 00:38
Dirty B*tch..
Posted on May 7, 2009 08:42
FU#K A NEX GAL MAN YES MY GIRL...........I JUST HOPE THE MAN A YARD FIND OUT AND LEF U AND THE OTHER MAN JUST CONTINUE FU#K U AND NUH GIVE U A SWEETY........DAM EDIAT
Posted on May 7, 2009 09:34
Dear Confused Broad,
What you need to do is stop thinking with your damn vagina and start using your head.
Why is it that bitches like you cannot SATISFY with your ONE man who PROVIDES! And Good women LIKE US suffer with DOGS that really belong to the GULLY WITH YOU!
My advice is, be honest with your damn self. And DO NOT GET involved with a man who is ALREADY taken. Because if it was really meant to be, who would've found your a*s first, but he did'nt, so leave MAN #2 ALONE!
As for your man who treats you and sexes you right, be honest with him. Tell him that you're feelings for him are not as strong as you had hoped. It's normal, alot of people stay with partners whom they have noooo feelings for. But it is not right to lead them on and have them waste their money on you. Let him know and stop leading him on! YUH NUH WORTH IT!
Posted on May 7, 2009 16:31
What can i say she is a woman
Posted on May 7, 2009 20:09
One thing i can say to you is to listen to yourself, you say the man at your house give you everything, and try is very best do what he can to make you happy. The keep man you say not even buy you a birthday present; the man dont even care enough to buy you a present or might not even remember your birthday, as old time people would say "USE SLEEP AND MARK DEATH", the man have him woman a him yard how u know seh him ago leave her for you. Do yourself a favour and keep your little pum pum quiet.
Posted on May 8, 2009 22:20
she wakin up in da middle of the night screaming moneyoooooyyyyyy?yep i think she has mackademia
i feel real srry for dis man he try so hard wit u an u wa lef he.
Posted on May 22, 2009 10:26
I'm a woman my self, I will not criticize you for what you are doing. However,you need to look out for the one who is looking out for you. Like Tina Turner said what love got to do with it.
Posted on May 27, 2009 16:54
You need to leave other people property "(OPP)" alone and work with your man in the aspect of recycle him to your needs.