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Chris Brown "will hit you again" - Oprah Winfrey warns Rihanna

By Krazy Katty
OutAroad.com Writer

oprah_winfrey_rihanna_chris_brown_show.jpgSince the release of reports that Rihanna and Chris Brown have reunited, this took place at P Diddy's Beach House in Miami, as began to anger a lot of Rihanna's female fans and industry insiders such as Oprah Winfrey and former Manhattan sex-crimes prosecutor Linda Fairstein.

Oprah Winfrey: "If a man hits you once, he will hit you again. He will hit you again."

She also went on to say that, she would dedicate a program about the situation on her next show - Domestic Violence.

"I want to do a show about it, dedicated to all the Rihannas of the world."

The former Manhattan sex-crimes prosecutor Linda Fairstein went as far as to compare the Chris Brown, Rihanna's saga to O.J. Simpson's case.

"Many of the circumstances in her case were like the early warning signs in the O.J. Simpson case," Fairstein said.

She also mentioned the fact that Chris Brown choked Rihanna while saying, "Now I'm really going to kill you" is a particularly bad sign.
"Choking behavior is a very interesting factor. It's hands on, face-to-face. It's a very intimate type of violence," she said.

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Comments (39)

 

CSG:
Posted by CSG | March 9, 2009 11:26 AM

Ri Ri may the LORD BE WITH YOU caz him ago bussss u ass again/// love is a rass ting// she mus know weh she a do.



toni:
Posted by toni | March 9, 2009 11:48 AM

Love is blind.. but when him buss u ass again a bet you start see the light!. Listen to O rih rih! Ur face too pretty fi a look like you and tyson a fight.



Posted by Protina | March 9, 2009 2:05 PM

hope RI wise up soon



Anonymous:
Posted by Anonymous | March 9, 2009 2:31 PM

STAY WITH YOUR MAN IF U DECIDE TO OPRAH JUST WANT SOMTHING TO TALK ABOUT SHE MUST STOP HAVE SEX OUTSIDE MARIAGE THAT IS THE EXAMPLE SHE SHOILD BE SETTING RIGHT NOW AN STOP BUT HER NOSE WHERE IT DOES NOT BELONG.LOVE U RI,RI, ONLY U NOWS WHAT U FEEL



meleon:
Posted by meleon | March 9, 2009 2:52 PM

At the end of the day, all this Rhianna saga is saying is that: for all the fame and money she has, girlfriend is lacking of the three S's: Self Love, Self Respect and Self Esteem. This is true for many a women who feel incomplete when they are not some man's woman/girlfriend/wife.

These women put the man's wants and needs ahead of their own and hence are willing to stoop to all sorts of abuse. Some wise up after a time but unfortunately, on the other hand some don't, resulting in loss of life, limb, etc. Lots of these women defy, even cut off love ones (ie: family and friends), who try to discourage them, to be with men who beat and berate them.

It is very sad what is happening but in a way I am glad it happened to someone of Rhianna's ilk. Hopefully, this experience will bring more in focus of the atrocities women face that have for years been hidden in the bowels of society. I hope Rhianna will wise up before it is too late and use this experience to lead a cause in a very public manner. BATTERING OF WOMEN IS A NO NO! VIOLENT RELATIONSHIP IS A NO NO!

Girlfriend and sisters like her need to start mentally hugging themselves everyday and look in the mirror and say to themselves with meaning and belief: "I love you" "I will always put you first" "My first priority in life is you". Let these words be their mantra for every single day they are alive. It is then that they will truly know the meaning in the words "the strength of a woman"

Rhianna wake up and see that u going back to dis creep is probably going to cost u ur career. Him and his people are just using u to save his. As soon as the world stars embracing him again you will definitely be history!

Lawd try as mi might I can nevva seem to write a short comment...chuh!



toni:
Posted by toni | March 9, 2009 3:27 PM

True word Meleon... lol look how Chris defender Bullsh*t soon address you, He doesn't like for females to open up their mouths and speak out against things like this.



Mr. Lou:
Posted by Mr. Lou | March 9, 2009 4:25 PM

it's not a surprised to me come she's from the caribbean what else you expect, but anyhow it was an american especially a white she done him career long time prison without trial, rihanna is just another dumb ass girl I also understood that even her own country people don't like har

P.S. So What is a bigger b*tch for Rihanna because all shi do is go around s*ck d*ck for pleasure



Trish:
Posted by Trish | March 9, 2009 5:57 PM

@Mr.Lou... what the hell is ur comment suppose to mean? and how she s**king d*ck concern you? U know you just a full blown b*ttyman who just a seek fi show u dutty colours! I saw u on the other thread, ready to throw on u G-STRING AND LIFT UP U FROCK FI TRACE SO WHAT! come cuss me, I DARE YOU!

Rihanna seek counselling dare, and as Oprah says, nobody not saying don't go back, but remember this if he could raise his hands and damage ur face like that without a second thought and threaten to take your life, What's to stop him the other time?

HAIL TO TONI AND MELEON, I ALWAYS ENJOY YOUR COMMENTS!



zee:
Posted by zee | March 9, 2009 5:58 PM

Rihanna, girl u know what ur heart feels. it ur choice to stand by ur man even when he his busting up ur face. u are young and inlove. i hope it's not the sex that is going to let u stay.i really wish u guys both the best.CHRIS BROWN I HOPE U LEARN FROM THIS.



bullhead:
Posted by bullhead | March 9, 2009 9:22 PM

Oprah go and solve the "chip on your shoulder" that's been haunting you, your entire life. Did you tell the students at your all-girl school, that were physically and sexually abused by a female employee at the said school, that it will happen again? lol.

You have been harbouring a grudge for men a long time now. In the early days of your tv show you had disgruntled women trick the men in their lives to attend your show for discussions, only to be ambushed with accusations of spousal abuse in your attempt to publicly shame and punish (supposedly) abusers. When you discover that some of the women were liars, you switched the format of the show to focus on celebrity interviews etc. lol. You are a sexist manhating scumbag. Any well-thinking person, and especially an influential tv show host like yourself, would know that what you say about a case in court can PREJUDICE THE CASE, but you don't give a f**k, you just want to ride on the hype of a hot topic to fatten your already bulging piggy bank some more. You all discussing a case and passing your little f**kass judgments as if a man is guilty before being tried in a court. Your hatred for the teenager and all other black men runs that deep doesn't it? That's why you couldn't find any space in your school for poor black boys in South Africa. You're so mad about what you heard, if you didn't say something you would suffer a heart attack or something. But did you pass similar remarks about the female abuser at your school before she was even tried? No. She's a woman. Not an animal like a big black ugly creature of a man! fuck you!



EMPREZ:
Posted by EMPREZ | March 9, 2009 10:55 PM

OPRAH NEED FI SHUT AR MOUTH AND GO BRUSH OFF THE DOG HAIR OFF HER BED RI RI YOUNG AND IN LOVE WHO KNOWS SHE PROBABLY KICK HIS A*S COUPLE A TIME 2 HA HA HAY BUT SHE AFFI LERN NOBODY CYAAH JUS TELL AR EVENTUALLY SHE JUST MIGHT BUT RIGHT NOW C*KY SWEET AR LIFE IS ONE BIG ROAD WITH A LOT OF SIGNS TURNS AND CORNERS BUT ONLY TRUE EXPERIENCE TEACHES WISDOM NOT A TALK SHOW HOST....MY ONLY ADVISE TO RI RI IS TAKE SOME SELF DEFENCE CLASSES YU AGO NEED IT MA'A A THE MUSIC AFTER THE MEK UP SEX AGO NICE HA HA HA HAAY



Chris B:
Posted by Chris B | March 10, 2009 11:05 AM

Chris Brown? If she search you phone, hit you wid di phone, fling fist and a jump all over you WHILE YOU A DRIVE? Next time she might STAB YOU WID A KNIFE or SHOOT YOU or BUN YOU UP WID ACID.

Go to court and talk di truth. Den lef har ras. I only sorry seh you never go to the police first! Men rarely do!



Jamaican_Kay:
Posted by Jamaican_Kay | March 10, 2009 12:27 PM

Chriss, box har again.......................might as well. since she loves u more than she loves her self.

I can bet it will get worst...........it always does



bullhead:
Posted by bullhead | March 10, 2009 12:35 PM

"Oprah sued for defamation by ex-school head"

"PHILADELPHIA - The ex-headmistress of Oprah Winfrey’s school for girls in South Africa sued the TV talk show host for defamation, claiming Winfrey falsely suggested she tried to cover up abuse at the school.

In widely reported remarks last year, Winfrey suggested that Nomvuyo Mzamane, 39, of Philadelphia, knew about alleged abuse by a dorm matron and tried to cover it up, Mzamane says in the lawsuit.

Her lawsuit, filed in Philadelphia Common Pleas Court on Friday, seeks more than $250,000 on five defamation and related counts from Winfrey and her production company."

"Her contract, which paid about $150,000 a year, was not renewed after December. She now is back in Philadelphia, but cannot find work in her field because Winfrey’s remarks about her are easily found on the Internet, McGowan said."

Source: http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/27052564/

Oprah, whether you win or lose this case, it should teach you something: Stop chatting bullshit about people that could smear their reputation, especially when they are linked to a matter before the courts. That big mouth of yours packs a lot of INFLUENCE and you damn well know it. You are evil.



EMPREZ:
Posted by EMPREZ | March 10, 2009 3:30 PM

bullhead a suh that woman love push ar mouth up pan people an ddem situation because she have money she always right she might be right when she seh him ago do it again but she nuh need fi add fuel to fire worse now when dem inna court we want them get back to the good music and great performers they are as soon as possible we nuh need she fi a paint nuh picture to the world bout this young black yout weh mek a mistake and this lil island girl weh a think wid ar heart oprah fi come wid a possitive message like a serious mentor and nuh tek nuh side leave that to we......



Trish:
Posted by Trish | March 10, 2009 6:15 PM

I don't get why people are telling Oprah to shut her mouth,She isn't the only celebrity who has offered support and spoken out about what's happen. Every body has an opinon and they are free to express it! Many of you might not know why it is that she is so passionate about this, well shut up and go google before u open ur big mouth and put the lady down!
Oprah was RAPED, abused by her father, plus she was in a very abusive relationship, So that's why she can speak first hand about it and often advice to YOUNG Rihanna. I didn't hear her condemn Chris Brown, she only said that Rihanna needs to take time and evalaute things and to take into consideration that if a man can hit and treat you like that he will do it again! People learn from other people's mistake , so nothing is wrong in her Expressing her opinon.
Mr. bullhead you are a very sexist, Egotistical, Macho pig who can't take responiblity for your actions. If Chris didn't feel he did anything wrong why would he say sorry to Rihanna? If as u put she is the one who brought this beat down on her self, Why hasn't he come forward and defended his name and tell the police what happen? Who are you to condemn Rihanna, but applaud Chris for his actions? If this was your daughter would your reaction be the same? HELL NO! You speak on how males are unfairly treated but at the same time you refuse to tell the men that do wrong to own up and accept their punshiment like men. You seem to be some what eduacted but most things that come forth from ur mouth is one-sided and baised.
That article you posted proofs nothing more than people will try and Extort money from the rich! In the above posting you said she didn't say nor do anything when the girls where abused at her school right? So tell me now why is this woman suing her again? Learn to read and comprehen, because u just blow ur own agurment out the water!
Rihanna you and Chris need to work on urself before you can work on building a Realtionship. Chris you need to own up to ur punishment and learn from it.



EMPREZ:
Posted by EMPREZ | March 10, 2009 7:01 PM

TRISH I TOTALLY AGREE WITH UR COMMENT BUT SHE ISNT THE ONLY ONE THAT SPOKE OUT WYTNEY JAY Z AND MANY OTHERS HAD THERE SAY BUT NONE TOOK SIDES IN THIS MATTER OF THE HEART THEY JUST EXTENED THIER REGRETS AND SAID THEY HOPE FOR THIS TO COME TO A CLEAR END FOR ALL INVOLVED OPRAH SHOULD HAVE DONE THE SAME AND NOT USE HER LIFE TO JUDGE 2 PEOPLE WHO CLEARLY DONT KNOW THEM EARS FROM THEM ASS DEM A LERN BOUT MIS PLACED ANGER BUT THAT NUH MEAN THEM CYAAH EVOLVE INTO A BETTER COUPLE AND THEM JUST MIGHT LEF AGAIN BUT PEOPLE NEED PEOPLE AND NO CAUSE IS LOST IF THERE IS EVEN ONE FOOL LEFT TO STAND UP FOR IT....WATCH MR. AND MRS. SMITH LOL LOL MAN AND WOMAN WILL FOREVER BE GOING AT IT SOME MORE THAN SOME BUT WHEN TWO PEOPLE CAN BE ABLE TO GROW PASS THINGS THAT IS A GREAT ACHIEVEMENT CAUSE ALL NOW MI WOULDA STILL A PLAN HIM BEAT DOWN HA HA HA HA HAAY



Trish:
Posted by Trish | March 10, 2009 7:35 PM

lol EMPREZ... point taken,But many celebs haven condemn Chris I didn't hear Oprah condemn him. Anyways I know that could never be me because, no man nah teck my face fi punching bag and get wah free without a mark!



bullhead:
Posted by bullhead | March 11, 2009 11:10 AM

@ Trish

QUOTE: "I don't get why people are telling Oprah to shut her mouth,She isn't the only celebrity who has offered support and spoken out about what's happen. Every body has an opinon and they are free to express it!"

ANSWER: Talk about it, but don't be bias and go throwing your support behind one side, while you are an outsider not privy to any intimate details surrounding the events that now lead to a court case. Reading statements from only one side and making foolish utterances, shows a certain degree of stupidity or just plain bias and wickedness.

QUOTE: "Oprah was RAPED, abused by her father, plus she was in a very abusive relationship.."

ANSWER: That's why I said she should go and solve the "chip on her shoulder." Her thinking is clouded from bitter memories rather than a balance and fair assessment of the situation. And the proof is the way how she is handling this simple matter.

QUOTE: "I didn't hear her condemn Chris Brown, she only said that Rihanna needs to take time and evalaute things and to take into consideration that if a man can hit and treat you like that he will do it again!"

ANSWER: That sounds like condemnation to me. In my interpretation, that sounds like someone is saying: "Read between the lines. This guy is a monster. He's gonna take you for a punching bag, over and over" Now look at this scenario: If you see a boy and a girl student in a fistfight at school, and a teacher comes along and tells the girl, if he hits you once, he'll do it again. What the fuck is that suppose to mean? The teacher is not impartial. Such a person is not interested in what started the fight and a way to settle the dispute. The teacher only wants to take sides and condemn one party to the event for even lifting a hand! Suppose it's proven in court that Rihanna started the fight by hitting Chris, will Oprah come on tv and tell Chris, "if she hits you and treat you like that she'll do it again. Get away from her, so there are now more fights"? That would be a news headliner! "Oprahs tells Chris to beware of Rihanna!"

QUOTE: Mr. bullhead you are a very sexist, Egotistical, Macho pig who can't take responiblity for your actions.

ANSWER: I do take responsibility for my own actions, and there's nothing sexist about my comments. I am fighting against the sexism, not encouraging it. If i was a judge on a case involving well known personalities i would put a gag order on the media if it was possible. No one could publish police photos and statements in an effort to influence and corrupt potential jurors, so they have greater sympathy for one party and become BIAS in their judgments.

QUOTE: "If Chris didn't feel he did anything wrong why would he say sorry to Rihanna?

ANSWER: If he cares about her, would he not be sorry, regardless of who's responsible?

QUOTE: "If as u put she is the one who brought this beat down on her self, Why hasn't he come forward and defended his name and tell the police what happen?"

ANSWER: I didn't say she was responsible for anything. Most people looking at this as she being the VICTIM without knowing that facts. I keep an open mind that she could have been the instigator. Anyone of them could be the guilty party. Not because she end up with a bloody face, she is the victim. I say people should not rush to judge without hearing argument from both sides, and let the court decide who's right and who's wrong. He's not saying anything in the media, cause when you are accused of a crime "anything you say, can and will be used against you in a court of law." That's what the police will tell you, so you keep quiet and only talk to your lawyer.

QUOTE: "Who are you to condemn Rihanna, but applaud Chris for his actions?"

ANSWER: I am neither condemning nor applauding anyone. So many people cuss me out for "defending chris." I am actually defending fair play and justice, so that you yourself shall be treated fairly and not be condemned in the streets before you are given a chance to utter a word in your own defence.

QUOTE: "If this was your daughter would your reaction be the same? HELL NO!"

ANSWER: My reaction would be the same. People must keep a cool head and not make matters worse, with crazy irresponsible reactions. Even your own daughter could be guilty of an offence. Act with caution and restraint, and let fair play and justice takes its course. Those people talking about PALS - peace and love in schools, they aint teaching you about anger management?

QUOTE: "You speak on how males are unfairly treated but at the same time you refuse to tell the men that do wrong to own up and accept their punshiment like men."

ANSWER: Men are getting their punishment. some are even getting punished for crimes they didn't commit. Why should a man be AUTOMATICALLY be assumed guilty, because he's accused of a crime? It's the woman who mostly get away with atrocities, cause she's a woman "who's the gentler sex" who only does bad things, AT ALL TIMES, as a REACTION to the wickedness of man. That's the sexism none of you want to talk about. Only the man is sexist and evil.

QUOTE: "You seem to be some what eduacted but most things that come forth from ur mouth is one-sided and baised."

ANSWER: Not one-sided and bias at all.

QUOTE: "That article you posted proofs nothing more than people will try and Extort money from the rich!"

ANSWER: So the rich media mogul who commands a lot of respect and is greatly influential shall have free reign to say things that could ruin your prospect for future employment with (allegedly) slanderous utterances? Why jump to conclusion that this is extortion? It could be a valid case. Let the court decide that. The article was use as proof that if people like to fly their big mouths and chat shit about people, sooner or later, they gonna land in hot water.

QUOTE: "In the above posting you said she didn't say nor do anything when the girls where abused at her school right?.."

ANSWER: I didn't say that. I said she wasn't on tv making remarks about the person accused of the crime, before she was even tried. But she's on tv reading police statements from only one party to the incident and talking shit about "if he hits you.. he'll hit you again." Did she tell her students at her school that if they were abused there, they'll be abused again? She's painting a picture of Chris being an HABITUAL ABUSER to tarnish his reputation and ruin his career. What is she on, a crusade against all men accused of domestic violence, because of her own negative experiences? Did Chris rape Oprah?

QUOTE: "So tell me now why is this woman suing her again? Learn to read and comprehen, because u just blow ur own agurment out the water!"

ANSWER: Suing her for defamation of character. Read it again and make note of the word "defamation."

QUOTE: "Chris you need to own up to ur punishment and learn from it."

ANSWER: Before we talk about punishment, let's find a person guilty of wrongdoing. It is possible he could've acted out of self-defence, but many of you won't accept that, cause you're horrified of the idea that a man should be treated EQUALLY on the domestic violence issue. To some of you, it is empowering to hide behind your gender and do all manner of things and get away scotch free, because: "I'm a woman!" Yes, sexism is alive and well, but some of you women won't own up to your own brand of sexism.



Trish:
Posted by Trish | March 11, 2009 12:00 PM

Your long a*s speech don't account for sh*t! Your jumping down on Oprah for one reason and one reason only! In your twisted world females Must Not have a voice, we must live in the shadows of men! Oprah didn't condemn Chris, she didn't say he was guilty she told Rihanna to leave because he might beat her, ARE U DISPUTING THAT FACT, THAT HE BEAT HER? If yes pictures don't lie and I doubt she fell and did that to herself. DONALD TRUMP HAS PUBLICLY CURSE AND CONDEMN CHRIS BROWN! Why aren't you up in arms about that? I know! Because you would like the world to feel that in this sexist baised one-side society, the Man's word don't stance for sh*t and no body really cares? Shut the hell up! Get the hell off women do this and don't get punished,blame the culprit for the crime and stop swifting and issuing out blame! You keep talking about courts, who the hell u think are in the seats of the courts and the jury? Isn't it male and females? It's not animals! So the world can and can't be fair but we all have to account for our own actions. Learn that shit! Chris was dead ass wrong and it's not hear say alone, the PICS where up and pics tell a thousand words! The courts found it reasonable enough to charge him with two felonies and even if he escape a jail or prison sentence , he won't escape the RED LETTER placed on his forehead! Domestic Violence is wrong, wrong, wrong. People will talk and share their views so leave Oprah to do it... Her mouth!



sweet P:
Posted by sweet P | March 11, 2009 1:09 PM

Rihanna? you go girl. i wouldn't fight you after all you staying with him just proof to the world how much you deserve what you got.I'm only ashamed that you are black & hails from the caribbean.oops are you sure you weren't adopted? because ever since your break its been defficult for you ex-fans to see the real you.And if this is it, then congratulations your the wolds' biggest ass not even whitney! at least she wanted out everytime she was sober which was very rare. But with you, you don't need drugs to be stupid your a natural. And as for chris your a guy, i'm a girl and i would have pulled the same PR stunt until the case was over and then kill har wid "lick an bun". give har something to be stupid about. SHE IS CHEAPER THAN A $10 WHORE. After court she's bad for your career.



meleon:
Posted by meleon | March 11, 2009 1:30 PM

@Trish: Thanks fiddi hailup girl. Mi si dem tek u on now. Hush yaah mi dear, many kinds come pon dis site yah!

@ toni: Hail mi girl. Mi just ignore certain comments from a one pon dis blog yah because mi convince a smaddy from di middle east a mek dem sort a post deh! A ongle desso mi know women are regarded as second class citizen and deserved anything bad weh reach dem.

Mi dis read seh Chris start abuse Rhianna again...don't know how true it is. But if a suh it go, Oprah wod nevva lost pass! And frankly, mi nuh really sarry fi ar still. but u know weh mi cant understan? How many women a encourage ar fi go back suh quick if at all. How can smaddy seh a ooman fi go back to a man weh beat ar because hood sweet and dem sitten deh? I can bet u any money seh dese will b di same people weh will condemn and laugh if him bruck up ar raas again or even kill ar.

Di ting is innuh, Rhianna mita b di one fi trow di fuss blow, and Chris buss ar ass fi it...wi nuh know wah really happen, just two peoples' words against each other. However, I still maintain, that if a relationship reaches a level weh it get physically violent, both parties need fi cut. If Rhianna hit him fuss, and Chris retaliate, mi can understan...a one mita a defend himself because is a human nature ting, but mi tink him go inna overkill pon ar. Him coulda kill ar! Wah dat woulda benefit him?

And now dat di lick cool shi willing fi forget, and gaan spreadout fi him again. Shi naa wonda inna di back a ar mind "how soon will di next explosion be?" "Is it that every time wi have an argument int is going to get violent?

Dis relationship clearly have issues that need to be resolved and nuh amount a makeup sex is going to solve dem deh problems. Dem need fi tek breathing space and address dem issues. From whe mi a read Rhianna 'fraid a him like puss, suh sitten must wrong if my source is to believed.



Toni:
Posted by Toni | March 11, 2009 2:21 PM

@ meleon... I understand what ur saying, me too i just ingore bullshit! anyways Rihanna needs to get help and counselling to me, at this point she seem to be so in love with him she can see past the beating. I read that he was still beating her and shouting at her for reporting the beating in the first place, so I ONLY HOPE SHE have some good, no i take that back, Some great friends around her who can talk some sense into her before it get to the point of no return! I don't agree with violence on no end, wether it be man or woman, but at the same time we know that a man's blow is nothing compared to a bitch slap(no pun intented)so after fi him fuss lick, Rihanna must did start feel weak, so that force wasn't called for. Threatening to take her life was uncalled for. She better wake up and smell the rass coffee and make a retreat before she end up six feet under! All I know chris a get a piece a blacklash, people all a call fi withdraw him from the nickoloden awards...

One thing mi have to say to men like Bullhead. no feel sah all women easy like Rihanna, Women out dah will damage you wicked, so u better clean up u thoughts before u encounter one a them!



bullhead:
Posted by bullhead | March 11, 2009 3:06 PM

@ meleon

QUOTE: "..Mi just ignore certain comments from a one pon dis blog yah because mi convince a smaddy from di middle east a mek dem sort a post deh!.."

QUOTE: "Di ting is innuh, Rhianna mita b di one fi trow di fuss blow, and Chris buss ar a*s fi it...wi nuh know wah really happen, just two peoples' words against each other. However, I still maintain, that if a relationship reaches a level weh it get physically violent, both parties need fi cut. If Rhianna hit him fuss, and Chris retaliate, mi can understan...a one mita a defend himself because is a human nature ting.."

ANSWER: You think i'm posting anti-woman comments from the middle east, yet your other comment quoted above come to the same conclusion i've been expressing. Who knows if the man acted in self-defence? We don't know. We can only wait for the case to be settled to know the CIRCUMSTANCES that led up to the violence. But at the end of the day, if they both want to be disrespectful and abusive to each order, they are both gonna end up as LOSERS.

If they want to fuss and fight each other and play into the hands of the wicked sensationalist media and controversy spin doctors, waiting like vultures to use them, that's their problem. The American media is using two popular entertainers as bait to catch the public in a spellbind so they can have their eyeballs fixed on a tv screen to boost ratings and make a windfall of cash. And Oprah is one such vulture. The opportunist can't wait to dedicate a domestic violence show to the "Rihanna's of the world"! Really? Or play on the emotions of the female audience for your own profit? You've been doing that for decades now.



Posted by Protina | March 11, 2009 5:45 PM

OMFG!!!

Bullhead loves to write, copy and paste for sure lol



meleon:
Posted by meleon | March 11, 2009 5:59 PM

@Toni: Yes I have been reading that he is giving her hell for calling the police in the first place. What I also learned on Sunday is that her camp is not allowing her family to get close to her. The Sunday Sun here in Barbados interviewed her father and he is very upset that all these tabloids are "quoting" things that he supposedly has said. He said that her camp treats her family like nothing and hardly allow even a phone call to get through to her. So u see, I believe that all involve both in CB and Rhianna's camp are manipulating the situation to suit themselves, and (gulp, at the risk of sounding like I agree wid di buller), using these two like puppets. http://www.tmz.com/2009/03/11/rihanna-and-chris-brown-together-or-not/

I know that 2 weeks before all this happened CB and Rhi Rhi actually broke up (Chris actually started dating other women) but their handlers decide they should patch things up for the publicity and the result was a beatdown for Rhianna! And the plot thickens. Girl mi seh if that is the price of fame....I don't want it! I believe dem betta start digging her burial site here in Barbados in anticipation of what is bound to happen if smaddy nuh get to Rhianna and talk some sense inna shi head! Mek wi si wah happen next.

Tacious! Nelly weh unnuh deh????



Toni:
Posted by Toni | March 11, 2009 9:34 PM

@ meleon.... lol u have to make sure how you word your statements because Bullsh*t always a lerk lol.... I read that also, I also read that she changed her email and number and her family can't talk nor get a hold of her! This is what happens when the young get rich and are thrusted in the spolight! Meleon dear, I want money to live nice and comfy, where mi can cock mi ten, but I sure as hell don't want the fame to go with it. Is like when u get the fame u also get curse with it! If Rihanna no straighten up and start figure out her life and get in contact with her family, they will surely have to use that plot you a talk bout. Chris look like him real mad at her and we all know what happens when him get mad!



EMPREZ:
Posted by EMPREZ | March 11, 2009 9:45 PM

MI NEVER SEH SHE FI GO BACK TO HIM SHE DO THAT OFF HAR OWN SUH A MUS C*KY SWEET AR A CYAAH NUTTIN ELSE ME JUS KNOW SEH REGAURDLESS A WAH WE A SEH PEOPLE A PEOPLE SUH THE QUICKER IT RESOLVE THE BETTER TOGETHER OR APART DEM AFFI CHOOSE BUT ME CYAAH WAIT FI THIS DRAMA DUN AND THE MUSIC SWEET AGAIN THAT A JUS MY 2 CENT.....LOL MI WISH ME DID 3 FEET TALLER AND 100 POUNDS HEAVIER FI BEAT MY MAN WHEN HIM GET PAN MY NERVES SUH MI NAAAH SEH A WORD LOL LOL LOL......



EMPREZ:
Posted by EMPREZ | March 12, 2009 8:45 AM

BIGGER TINGS CHRIS A F*CK HIM 40 YEAR OLD MANAGER A SHE CAUSE THE WAR A SHE SEND THE TEXT HIM SI HIM CAREER AGO DUN IF THE C*CKY NUH RUN HA HA HAHAAY AND HIM START BEAT AR AGAIN SUH SHE SEEM TO HAVE A PAIN FETISH SUH RI RI... MI FREN SELLL DOMINATRICS TOYS SUH HIT MI UP FI YU WHIP AND HANDCUFFS AND ALLLLL THESE THINGS OK...HA HAHAAAY



Nelly:
Posted by Nelly | March 12, 2009 4:34 PM

@Meleon - I am here my Dear..Greetings to You, Toni, Tacious and ALL di Crew. I was watching how Mr (wont call his name) act like he wants to take on everyone. You didnt called his name but he wore the Cap as the Great Bob Marley once uttered.

I will only say, that if a person has a TV show (Oprah) and there is a topic out there to discuss, why not discuss it. Its not a vulture thing, Its worthy news to discuss.

I cannot agree with CB. If Rih Rih slap him first, her Slap dont justify that Beat Down she got, and she got a beat down because the Picture proves it. Even if Lady O has a chip on her shoulder, she didnt create this news, Rih Rih Busted face did. and Yes i can look at Rih Rih's face and choose side...And I Nelly choose Rih's side, not because i am woman but because she was BEATING and mi nuh si a scratch pon CB.



meleon:
Posted by meleon | March 12, 2009 5:36 PM

lolol@: Nelly and Toni! Mi dears, dat deh bredda deh look like him a suffer from verbal diarrhea and mi nuh have di cure fi dat suh mi walk him out! As far as mi can sum him up is dat in him personal life him can't open him mouth and mek even a squeak suh Outaroad is di ongle outlet him have. More dan likely a is a woman is di source a him oppression suh dat is why him lick out summuch when one a wi talk up di tings bout di Rhianna case.

Mi agree wid u and Toni 100% Oprah have every right fi seh weh shi seh. Mi nuh si nutten wrong ar mekking di statement dat if a man hit u once him wi do it again...is raas fact dat pure and simple! Shi nuh condemn nuhbaddy, shi just state a fact. Mi dis watch ar show nuh too long and shi stop Trya inna ar tracks and mek shi know seh is not about Rhianna needing help alone is about Chris too and dat ar show is not to condemn nuhbaddy! Mr.(He Who Must Not Be Named) can go check it out if him want, seeing dat him love fi tek on every woman pon dah site yah.

Toni, When u check it out what is happening wid Rhianna alienating ar parents is quite expected. It was made easy for her handlers to manipulate ar away from ar family because shi leff yah alone as a teenager go fend fi arself...mi just can't undastan how ar mumma allow ar young daughter alone among dem wolves deh . Certainly now dem wont b di fuss one shi turn to inna ar time of need. Mi hear seh shi come yah year b 4 last and disgrace ar mumma di woss way inna crowd suh nuh sort a respect nuh deh. Di music industry in any country nuh pretty and mi can imagine di amount a big-hood and other exploitation Rhianna went through just fi get ar fuss hit. Nuh parents nuh deh deh fi guide are and provide di security netting incase shi waan run! Things like dem deh can cause resentment from child towards parents innuh. Early exposure in toward anything in life is never good for a child.



Toni:
Posted by Toni | March 12, 2009 8:09 PM

You know Meleon I was just going to comment on the show lol.. GREAT MINDS REALLY THINK ALIKE LOL. Mr.Bullhead ,I conclude is suffering from pent up angER and hatred for females, He see's us( females) as the ones that cause all the problems males face. I doubt if him even have woman, Him all sound like him hate him mother! I have stop wasting my time and energy on him. He has way too much times on his hands,You notice every comment that we make, him fine time to cut, copy and paste it? Lol Is like we can't state our OPINON IN PEACE!

Oprah, Dr.phil and Tyra all had shows on domestic Violence today so i was going back and forth watching all of them. I knew Oprah wasn't pasting judgement, I understood what she meant, being that she can speak on it first hand! Is only Bullshit never understand!
On Tyra show my dear there was this young man, Lawd God you want talk about Violent? lol you should have seen and heard him, when asked why he beat on his babymother is only answer was 'I don't really think about it" That's to show you that these batters don't view women as their equal and not all the time women have to do something to provoke the wrath of these CEATURES!

Rihanna and Chris just put a well need face to Domestic Violence and everybody once again see that it's an issue that needs to addressed! Both Rihanna and Chris needs serious help, there can't be a good ending to this story if help isn't offered to both.

Her family just thrust the young girl out in the world and they knew that the family stucture wasn't strong from morning. They only say fame and money, they didn't think about the many things that could go wrong when living that kind of live. Now she is far away and people are keeping her away from them, and she feel she loves Chris buss me down Brown. I just hope them can really get to her before anything esle happens to her! We are all women and we should stick up for one another!..

Bless up meleon, tacious, nelly and trish, We a real woman!



meleon:
Posted by meleon | March 12, 2009 11:24 PM

Yes Toni, mi did start watch di Tyra Banks show and to tell di truth, mi start get bex from di fuss go, wen di bwoy a look pon im girlfriend a way when shi start tell ar story suh mi dis change di channel and done wid dat. Mi blood did a boil too much and seeing dat him nuh deh nuhweh near mi fimmi sort him out mi decide fi watch some cartoon instead because mi blood pressha couldn't manage it at all.

From weh u a tell mi now mi glad mi nevva go nuh furda wid it because mi probably woulda have stroke!!! Di naastiniss dem!!! Like mi seh, mi hope dat dis CB and Rhi story is a catalyst fi some positive revolution against Domestic abuse of both women and men (cause some a di man dem a get dem ass cut hard hard to and naa talk), but seeing dat di higher %tile is against women mi definitely affi sympathise wid mi sisters as a mi is a woman and it can happen to me...it has happened to me. A bredda lick mi arredy and him nuh get anodda chance. Mi tink him still a try get him seed outa him head all like now, but mi nuh stop fi ax, mi nuh care, mi cut...end of story. I bet di fuckka nuh try it wid anodda woman again. Mi get fi undastan aftawards seh it was him habit...no baddy nevva fight back...untill him touch mi...raas him! Oh and for u Mr. Bullhead, him nevva did have nuh reason fi touch mi, mi nevva lick him fuss. Suh reply to dis raas comment and tell mi dat mi deserve weh mi get...just come! A man who is an abuser nuh need nuh reason fi hit, him just do it because him feel im can! It gives him a POWER boost when him hit his woman.

A real man nuh hit his woman! A real man walk out his woman when shi get pon him raas nerves and if him si dat shi a get pon it too often weh him feel like him aggo hit ar, him fi end di relationship or dem go seek councilling. Chris mita did have reason fi hit Rhi but him coulda walk away to. While mi understand is probably a knee-jerk reaction to her alleged attack (cause all now mi nuh si a scratch pon him) mi don't condone it. Always there is a choice in every situation.



Toni:
Posted by Toni | March 13, 2009 11:29 AM

Meleon girl, I'm proud that you stood up for yourself! Many many women feel like they have to be the victim, hell ho, Women must learn to fight back and stand their ground, letting these Hogs know that No it's not ok to hit me, No it's not ok to put me down! I myself have never been hit by a man, but I know of people esp. my friend and the way how these women are broken, they start feeling that the beatings are their fault, They feel they are to be blamed and for that they allow it.
I will always be here speaking out on domestic Violence, both for men and for women. As Oprah said love doesn't hurt, so if your in an abusive relationship get the hell out! Your so better than that.



Nelly:
Posted by Nelly | March 13, 2009 12:47 PM

Ladies, the more mi hear bout this CB/Rih situation is the more mi agree with something wey Meleon said earlier. Rih is lacking the three S's (self love, Self respect, Self Esteem). How the F u can mek a BOY beat you like that and get wey wid it. First of all, the relationship doesnt have longevity, no kids, no house, no finances fi divide. Rih is not depending on him it any way. I say these things because some woman tek the beatings for the things I listed above. So mi cannot figure out Rih and why she would go back to him except that she is lacking the three S's.



Toni:
Posted by Toni | March 13, 2009 1:29 PM

@ Nelly... she doesn't need all the material things, but she seems like she is dying to be loved, from what I have read her father wasn't playing a big part in her life until she got Famous. She doesn't seem to have a great family structure AND when that is lacking many women turn to someone like a Boyfriend or a husband to offer that kind of structure and love, even when it's just a lie, they rather hold on to the illsion of it being perfect, than to leave. Right now she is confused as to what love really is. I am not being hard on her because it's something deep-rooted, so she needs to be counselled. That's why she is lacking the three S's. This situation just proves that Money and fame can't come close to making a person happy..



Nelly:
Posted by Nelly | March 13, 2009 4:27 PM

@Toni - yep, i see your point thats exactly was it prooves, $$$$ cannot buy happiness. Such a Pity. I wish her (Rih Rih) all the Best!

Have a Wonderful Wknd, I am going to sleep my life away this wknd, JA's sunshine/alcohol knock mi out, the little 6 days i spend there this past week.



Visoldierette:
Posted by Visoldierette | March 17, 2009 7:10 PM

lawd unnu a beat up on da bull bad but really trute can be found in all of your statements. no one knows what relly happened that fateful night not even di almighty oprah and tru seh rihanna did look like she dead inna dem pics, who are we to say she wasn't the impetus for the altercation? Both parties have said publicly in the past that domestic abuse was present in both their families.. everyone is forgetting that these are a bunch of kids who probbaly don't realize what the hell they are doing, if they did they probly wouldn't have been back up inna each other face so. though its a topic worthy of discussion i agree that the media has alot of power over situations like these oprah still, mi caan believe how mucha people a swear by what oprah seh and tekk every word weh she utter for gospel people mind CAAN be swayed when certain media and personalities open them mouth. as a female my heart goes out to rihanna an me really feel fi di young gal, chris shoulda neva tekk har on like seh she a big man but still nubady pon da blog ya cyaa swear for or condemn either one of them. no one has the right to put their hands on another person male or female and that is a fact acknowledged in a court of law so we will see how this one will turn out, i just hope after all is said and done the two will speak out on these kinds of situations since they are already the new faces of domestic abuse



bullhead:
Posted by bullhead | March 30, 2009 9:42 AM

Hey Oprah. A celebrity white dude just smashed up a prostitute leaving both of her eyes bloodshotted and her face black and blue. You gonna dedicate a show to prostitutes of the world who get beaten up for allegedly trying to bite off a man's tongue?

No, I don't think you will. This guy is white and you only highlight bad relations involving black men, right? You have a score to settle with black men aint ya?

Source: http://www.tmz.com/2009/03/30/shamwow-pitchmans-alleged-victim/



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