Dear Mr. Propafix,
I really need your advice. I am 19 years old and I am involved with a 38 year old man. So far he has been treating me really nice and helps me with any financial difficulty. I attend a well known teachers college and I’m at my final year but at times I feel like I’m too good for him are he is below my standard. He does not know anything about Standard English, he is always very loud, he comes from the ghetto, he work has a bus driver and yes, he has a son who is 5 years old. Inspite of all those things I still find him to be a sweet individual and I just cannot leave him. We have been together for almost a year and there has been no problem it’s just smooth sail. But why am I having second thoughts, please help me out.
From what I am reading, I don’t think it has nothing to do with he being really nice to you or the fact that he doesn’t know Standard English, I think you are more worried about going back to your poor financial status if you were to end the relationship.
None of what you mentioned above is a solid excuse for you to end the relationship. In the first place what was it that forced you to get involved with this man knowing that he has a child, he’s a bus driver and he’s from the ghetto. Maybe you were too busy focusing on what you can get. Now that you are in your final year and won’t be needing his help anymore you have decided that you are too good for him. If that is the case then why were you not too good for him when you needed help?
Young woman to be frank with you- you disgust me and there is no other way I can put it. I think that you are the worst type of character that society has to offer because you have used this man and are planning to leave his life in shambles. You are a user and a dishonest individual and I am sorry for the victim - the poor kindhearted man that has made so many sacrifices for you.
That is my advice young lady - tek it or leave it
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