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After he slid in his d*ck he stopped calling me

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Dear Mr Proppafix

I'm so confuse. I like this guy that goes to the same school as me. We talk...during our conversation I asked him if he has a woman his response were "not really" after all that he asked for my number so, I gave it to him. He didn't call me till a week after... One night (a Monday night) he called... he asked me out, while we were there enjoying one another company, he asked for a kiss so I gave him suddenly I feel his hand touching my breast so I move away and tell him that he is going too far.

He didn't call me till the next Monday so, I asked him why he didn't called me, he said he been calling me but no one was home so I let that passed. So I told him that I don’t expect a commitment, I aint that stupid, but at the same time I am not looking for a one time, two time f**k. Tuesday he asked me out again, I said yes...we went out again but this time we take it to another level. We started kissing one another, feeling one another...Another hot and humid kiss rekindled our fire. He asked, "Since you already satisfy me let me satisfy you back" ...I whispered in a rhetorical tone, “We cant do this. Not this quick. Getting naked too soon always leads to problem...his dick slid in my vagina but before 6 seconds I tell him to stop, so we stopped kiss and that was it...while we're there heading home we had a wonderful conversation.

from since that night he haven't call me so, I am wondering if it was all about the sex he wanted or he want me to miss him....I know this sound a bit off but, I'm a bit confuse...I need your advise.

-K.S.

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Dear K.S.

I am not saying it’s right for him to stop calling you right after he got the chance to slid his d*ck inside of you. However, do you ever stop to think that you might be at fault for the simple words you say? As you mentioned in your letter, “I don’t expect a commitment - but at the same time I am not looking for a one-time, two-time f**k”. So this is my point maybe this dude is not like the others who just want to be your boyfriend for two or three months. I think this guy is looking for long term relationship and not just one that only provides sexual pleasures.

Another thing, you gave him your number and it took him a week before he calls you, it seems to me he’s not in any rush or maybe he’s just playing his cards right. But then again, I am so surprised that this becomes a bother to you because if you are not expecting a commitment from him why worry about it.

That is my advice young lady - tek it or leave it

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Anonymous:
Posted by Anonymous | January 13, 2009 12:13 PM

Yes it's all about sex



INFURIATED:
Posted by INFURIATED | January 13, 2009 12:20 PM

hey she deserve what she get because as proppa fix seh if you don't want commitment and you tek a one dagger den weh yuh a worry fah I hope yuh did dagger with condom



toni:
Posted by toni | January 13, 2009 12:20 PM

My grandmother always tell me to choose my words wisely cause they will come back to haunt u.... U tell the guy ur not expecting a commitment and that's maybe what he going off!... He will now only calls when he feels to as u put it 'go out'..... I don't think this youth is being completely honest and the fact that he got a lil taste and never called u back, simple means to me that he doesn't want anything to do with u, interms of relationship... He was just looking to get between ur legs... The next time he calls u.... just don't answer him, mek him go bout him business.... Move on dear there's nothing there anyways!



Anonymous:
Posted by Anonymous | January 13, 2009 12:22 PM

dis is why pickney like u not suppose to be engaging in sexual activities. U nuh even know wat u want and or when u say tings, u don't know exactly wat u are saying. the boy played u cause listen to wat him say when u ask about him have a girlfriend: 'not really' wat kinda answer is dat. he nuh want u no more because u ain't give up de pumz as quickly as he want it. my girl, he did u a favour by not calling back. Lesson: stop study man and study ur books



heathen:
Posted by heathen | January 13, 2009 12:31 PM

"Another hot and humid kiss rekindled our fire" a wah dis Harlequin romance? lmao. Proppa Fix tap teck di ppl dem tun pappishow.



Sweetie:
Posted by Sweetie | January 13, 2009 1:37 PM

this girl allow him to slide his thing in her, wat if he has a virus



FO:
Posted by FO | January 13, 2009 2:07 PM

little girl, de man did just want a piece and run but thru you naah give it up quick and a run run off you mouth him just gaan to the next easy piece. Be careful next time cause kissing and petting leads to other things if you're weak or not experienced enough to hold out.



LUCKY_KILLAH:
Posted by LUCKY_KILLAH | January 13, 2009 2:22 PM

BIG UP OLD HARBOUR, DUNN KIRK AND MANLEY MEADOWS.
YO FIRST, DID HE USE A CONDOM TO SLIDE HIS D*CK IN? MAYBE HE HAVE SOME SH*T, SO HE BOUNCE AND U WILL FIND OUT IN 7MONTHS........ IT CAN ALSO BE THAT THA DUDE IS SPENDING MONEY AND NOT GETTIN ANY......YUH TINK MAN HAVE MONEY TO WASTE.....WHERE WERE U GUYS HANGING OUT? WHERE DID HE SLIDE IT IN? IF IT'S A HOTEL, THEN U WASTE HIS MONEY



Can:
Posted by Can | January 13, 2009 2:31 PM

You sound young, so I'll be gentle. When a man response is "not really" when you ask him if he has a woman - thats a clear YES, I HAVE A WOMAN. Plus, if you are not the type of person who can handle flings & you know you prefer a monogamous relationship with a man, don't tell him you dont want a commitment or he's gonna do exactly the same thing this guy did to you. Forget about this guy cuz he's obviously a player & you dont sound like you can handle this game.



GAZA THUG:
Posted by GAZA THUG | January 13, 2009 2:56 PM

Girl you a everyman's dream....lol fi real cah u seh u nuh waan no commitment nuh gal never tell me dat yet all gallis kno how di ting go, di only reason mi can think why him neva want to call back is cause a di second time him try f*ck u an u seh no so him probably feel seh it nuh worth it dat happen nuff time...str8



Blary:
Posted by Blary | January 13, 2009 3:46 PM

Thats happen to girls who are easy. One rule for you never be so desperate for a guy it will be a turn off. Its the guy suppose to pursue the girls not the other way round. The guy you date has his girlfriend so he won`t loose anything because he said not really mean he has a one think about, if he didn`t have one he would say no.



STEPPA:
Posted by STEPPA | January 13, 2009 4:09 PM

@ Sweetie, this was the only thing that came to mind. What if he had a Virus and he did the job that he was suppose to do, which is to pass it on to sluts like you.



Anonymous:
Posted by Anonymous | January 13, 2009 4:22 PM

See it deh u gone wrong link mi mi will teach u the rite



Posted by Tina Lee | January 13, 2009 5:50 PM

Anonymous comment is FUNNY ! AND TRUE !
And slide it in ? It seems no condom was used.
All di girl fi do is not pick up if he ever calls because was just looking for some pum pum.

Tina Lee aka MISS SPANISH



NJ Shotta:
Posted by NJ Shotta | January 13, 2009 8:49 PM

Di girl confuse! lol she gon turn lesbian!! LMAO iiidiot gurl! tek di b*ddy ar leave it.! that is my advice.



guru2085:
Posted by guru2085 | January 13, 2009 11:34 PM

nuh woman nuh deserve to be treated like dat, not even pan di first date, some times tings get outta hand but thats where you have to stop for a min a tink if you really an one night stand with long last relationship that hope to god em may stay or an one night stand and he won't' call you or text but every once a week, think about it girl, tek it from a real man, it shouldn't happen like dat, you should think about your priorities before you even give em yo number or an date, dat was too fast, unless its what you wanted. think before you act.



Jahluv:
Posted by Jahluv | January 14, 2009 2:25 AM

Link mi



mizztikle:
Posted by mizztikle | January 14, 2009 6:45 AM

if the man only calls you on a Monday that should be a sign this girl that he is kinda seeing probably works on a Monday evening/night which is why he is seein you then. i suggest you put this dwn to experience an move on you deserve better i think you told this guy you didnt want commitment because you thought it was what he wanted to hear and probably because you thought if you werent in a relationship he couldnt hurt you but you were wrng hope you learn your lesson just move on.



Posted by Protina | January 14, 2009 9:20 AM

Honey a suh most men stay if dem caan get it dem don't hang around, that's y u need to study dem expecially the ones dem dat u like dont be too easy that might be a reason him nuh call u bk. Some guys just test some woman anyway u sound like a school girl no matter how much u like the guy never settle for a quickky dem will think otherwise seh a suh u behave wid other guys that is a easy girl wuick fi gi weh di pums



Tacious:
Posted by Tacious | January 14, 2009 11:31 AM

That's the magic words that most teens want to hear: NO COMMITMENT.
Why are you surprised that he didn't call after he put it on you? What did you want? A report on how well you f**ked?? Please! You said you wanted no commitment, therefore he's not committing himself to you and THAT includes not calling you. Simple and plain. A blind man could see through this situation.

By reading this letter, I know you're young and naive. DON'T RUSH SEX! Wait until you know what you want and expect out of yourself and more importantly, your partner. A man wont know what you want until you know what you want. Until then, close your damn legs and open up a textbook your parents paid hefty money for.



lisawillja:
Posted by lisawillja | January 14, 2009 3:28 PM

You are too young to manage the responsibility and emotional baggage of sex. Leave it until you are older and finished with education.



T:
Posted by T | January 14, 2009 6:18 PM

That was a very long 6 seconds i am SURE!



meleon:
Posted by meleon | January 14, 2009 10:40 PM

U know wah stike mi when mi read dis letta yah? More and more dese likkle jubbies writing ProppaFix bout man argument more dan big ole tuff ooman lakka miself yah. Now, mi read dis letta and mi unda di impression seh dis likkle gyal yah nuh more dan 14 cause shi sentence structure poor nuh r*as!

Mi naa go cuddle dis likkle pickney yah because mi very concern bout weh deh pon dem likkle young gyal yah mind. How come mi nevva lucky fi si none a dem write a ax advice bout book work and study habits? Betta still, writing skills? Why di raas dese likkle teenie-boppers, in a hurry fi tek hood more dan dem book?

Young gyal, if it bothers yuh seh di bwoy fuck u and leff u den yuh obviously nuh ready fi tek hood yet. It happen to di best of wi...deal wid it! It just goes to show u seh u definitely shouldn't a concentrate pon hood and a gwaan like u a player.

Yuh nuh hear yet? Di world inna recession! Put yuh likkle pussy inna recession to and focus pon yuh dyamn book work! Yuh tink it easy out yah? Especially fi woman? Listen to mi, pussy nuh deh pon price again, suh if a mi like yuh hide it up and focus pon sitten weh aggo mek mi some money when mi ready fi life. Suppose di bwoy did breed u? Suppose yuh did ketch disease eeenh? Yuh a idiat? Chuh! Mi cyaan understand, a when pickney get suh bareface till summuch a unnuh a write columnist a look advise pon man problem? ProppaFix nuh know fi run unnuh dwoh?

Undastan weh mi a try tell yuh likkle gyal...from now till yuh dead, yuh gwine fall in love many times, get fucked many times, get hurt many times. Yuh have u whole life ahead of u, but know seh time naah wait pon u. Opportunity fi mek sitten a u life is now, focus pon dat. Layta u pick choose and refuse hood all yuh want, dem always come and go, but weh u have inna yuh head will nevva leff u. Go tek u raas book! AND DAT GOES FI ALL UNNUH LIKKLE YOUNG GYAL OUT DEH TO!



Can:
Posted by Can | January 15, 2009 12:32 PM

Thank you Meleon, mi nuh like rough dem up when dem young, but dem need it. Dem nuh know seh buddy of all size, length, colour & creed ago still deh deh when dem tun woman. Plus I dont even think they enjoy sex when dem so young is just the man/boy have the enjoyment.



triniwildness:
Posted by triniwildness | January 15, 2009 11:37 PM

boy allyuh yardies is di wors' yes! Guide di gyal good nuh???? oh gormmmm...i sweatin' laughin' at allyuh comments, iz now di gyal really confuse oui if she read most ah di comments here, allyuh iz born comedians here i eh go lie at all! under all kix, she must be really wah di bamboo but 'fraid she get what's di obvious - dis man eh wah no relationship, and poor ting probably dying for acceptance from dis man who she seem real into, but he not on that commitment level, just in it for di dig! Girl look elsewhere for a good dig with some respectful commitment...



Nelly:
Posted by Nelly | January 16, 2009 11:32 AM

@triniwildness - its call Tuff Love. wi cant pet & powder them(talk to them nice). they need if hear it straight.

@Meleon as always u right - Big wooman like us nuh tink or need fi write Proppafix, we just handle wi biz.

@Miss KS confuse - the comments are correct. Focus more pon u book. The d*ck them nah gu nuh wey. and seriouls though, why would someone call u back when u said u dont want committment. the man ah wait pon u fi call him so him can come lace u again. Please, mi a beg u, ease off of the man ting and study yr book.



candy:
Posted by candy | January 16, 2009 9:52 PM

a wha kinda pum pum she have that his dick just slid in?? anyway work on tightn that hole so the next man wont slide in girlll!!!lame



Tacious:
Posted by Tacious | January 17, 2009 12:02 AM

@ Candy

I would just like to kindly remind you that when a man penetrates a woman's vagina tight or loose HE WILL ALWAYS SLIDE IN. Alot of You people need to stop with this 'keep di p*ssy tite' business when we all know half of you stank broad's p*ssies are looser than a air vent. Okay, so don't judge the girls vagina, judge the girl at topic's lack of sense.
And while on the topic of keeping it tight, Candy, tighten the screws on your brain, they coming loose.



TONI:
Posted by TONI | January 17, 2009 5:10 PM

@ Tacious... hahahahaha u so right... Lawd, I see why I like u so.. u full a pure vibes.. what u say loose like air vent, hahahahahahaha

@ MELEON.... u need to tek over from proppafix....



meleon:
Posted by meleon | January 17, 2009 6:23 PM

LOLOLOL @ Tacious...yuh mek mi choke pon mi dinner!

Hail up to u, Toni, Nelly, Can and di ress addi outaroad peeps! Hope unnuh New Year is a fruitful one.

Toni mi aggo apply fi Proppafix wok!



candy:
Posted by candy | January 18, 2009 9:56 PM

tacious mi just si sey u a try reach out to mi but hear yah mi a si mi bloo**d right now so mi need u fi get a straw n come su*k mi plz.people free fi sey what they want p*ssi a di wrong person u pick pan crowbate



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