Mr Proppa fix
I am a twenty-year-old student of a prominent tertiary institution in the corporate area. Most girls at school find me attractive as they say that I am a ‘face boy’ and I work out so I am quite muscular. Something has been bothering me for a few weeks and I need your advice on what I should do.
I am relatively popular at school, so I know many females from all different faculties. A few weeks ago, I was a home sleeping when a girl who said that she was a secret admirer called my phone. She said that she got my number from one of her friends and she saw me on campus and really wanted to get to know me. We agreed to meet up later that night at her place.
When I got to her house later that night, I was surprised to find out that I knew her and not only that- she was in my faculty, but in a different year. I had no idea that she was admiring me on that level. She was not really my type because she was a bit on the chubby side but I thought - what the hell - might as well make use of the opportunity!
To cut a long story short, I ended up spending the night, but it was not what I anticipated at all. When things started to get very hot between us and I started to kiss her and caress her body everything was fine. It was all good up until the point that I started to strip off her clothes and I noticed a foul smell in the room. At first, I was wondering, almost in denial, as to where the smell was coming from, but the more I took off, the worse the odor got. I am a very fussy guy when it comes on to hygiene but I know that I am not exaggerating when I say that this girl's p*ssy smell worse than a dead decomposing person (and I know what a dead person smells like).
I immediately lost my erection and I was too embarrassed to go any further- embarrassed for her not me because any sane man would be turned off by that smell. After being exposed to the odor for a few minutes I started to get a stomach ache and a head ache and I spent the rest of the night in the bathroom on the toilet and occasionally throwing up. I must emphasize that this was and still is the worse smell I have ever encountered in my life.
As soon as ‘morning light’- I was out of there. I got home and went into the shower immediately and then I had to wash my hands with bleach and breeze for about three days until her stench disappeared.
The problem is this girl still has no idea that there is a dead man living inside of her. She keeps on seeing me on campus and asking me when I am planning to come and finish what I started. I feel like I have a responsibility to tell her something because I think she might have a medical issue because that smell is not ordinary. Mr. Proppa fix how can I tell this girl that she needs to do something about her Odor?
You have just completed another stage of becoming a man. Until you have had a few bad experiences with the females, you have not experienced anything. I am glad however that you did not go any were near that girl. From what you have described, she really does seem to have a medical problem or she has very poor hygiene. It always amazes me that females with that problem cannot smell it themselves. One of my friends that I was discussing a similar experience with drew an analogy: does the garbage man smell the rubbish truck in the same way as someone who is walking past it would?
The only way that this young woman might know that she needs to seek help is if somebody tells her and maybe you should be the one to do it. I really cannot tell you what to say but I can tell you that - if you do decide on telling her, it must be done as nicely as possible. Do not embarrass her as this could be damaging to her psychologically. Personally, when I was much younger, I had a similar experience, although it was difficult - I managed to tell the woman, and even though I didn’t ‘go there’ with her again, she contacted me and thanked me for bringing it to her attention because she was completely unaware of it.
Take things like this in your strides as a learning experience and better luck next time. You suffered one of the many hazards of casual sex.
That is my advice young man - tek it or leave it
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