Mr. Proppa Fix - Tek it or leave it
Dear Mr. Proppa Fix,
I am an educated young man with a well paying job in the Corporate Area. I consider myself well mannered and good with women.
A few weeks ago, I was introduced by a friend to a young woman who attends a tertiary institution in Kingston. She is very attractive and smart and we had no problem hitting it off. We went out for a date on the same night we met and after we went back to her place to ‘chill’. Nothing happened because I think that people should get to know each other before they become intimate. We kept in touch over the phone and went on several dates after that and we have started to develop feelings for each other. My problem is the other day she told me that she has something to confess to me - she told me that she had lied about her age and she was in fact 16 instead of 18 as she had previously told me.
Mr. Proppa fix I felt upset and confused because I don’t usually date people that are younger than me and this girl is nearly 8 years my junior. The major dilemma is that she is desperate for us to have sex and I am very hesitant because of the age difference.
Most of my friends are styling me as a ‘waste man’ and a’ rucks’. They think that if she looks ready for the plucking then I should give it to her the real and proper way. However, I really do not want to take advantage of her even though I know that she is not a virgin and legally she is the age of consent. She keeps calling me and expressing the same sentiments and my friends keep telling me that nobody has to know and we can keep it between both of us.
She calls me at least 5 times for the day with various tricks to get me to come to her house and when I do not pick up the phone, she leaves voice mails and text messages. I really do not know what to do because on one hand, I really want to sleep with her but on the other hand, I think she needs time to grow.
I await your response
Indecisive, Kingston
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Dear Indecisive,
Judging from your tone, I can see that you are a very considerate young man. I think that a decision like this can only be made by you and not your friends. The fact is - the young woman you speak of is legally able to decide whether she wants to sleep with you. But if you do not feel comfortable with her level of maturity, I think you should allow her time to grow.
In all aspects of life, it is important to make responsible decisions that may not necessarily be in agreement with what others around you may think (particularly your peers). Many times when you follow peer pressures when things go wrong you are the only one left to deal with the mess.
Also, I think you should consider whether or not you can trust this young lady - she lied to you about her age, so there could be other things that she could be neglecting to tell you- are you even sure that she is 16?
When I was your age I used to get a lot of opportunities with the ladies, but the thing that separated me from many of my friends that got caught up in all sorts of drama was my ability to know when to leave one alone.
That’s my advise young man - ‘tek it or leave it.’
email your problems to mr.proppafix@Gmail.com
Posted on June 23, 2008 11:41
fadda boi trust meh know wat yuh doin cuz if yuh mek d wrong move yuh cud end up pon sh*t streak so watch it!!!!
Posted on June 23, 2008 11:56
it sticky!!! Do wat u mind tell u 2 do. y she forcin on d nukki pan u like dat mi feel seh sumting nu right.
Posted on June 23, 2008 12:08
all mi haffi seh is use the LATEX if u eva get carried away.Trust mi p*ssy no sweeta dan u life.
Posted on June 23, 2008 12:40
right all mi affi seh is use a condom and give har some bl**dcl**t backshot, youth di gal a 16 shi reach the age of conscent just imagine how long shi waiting fi reach 16 fi start tek big c**ky, if you don't pluck it someone else might and maybe older than you
Posted on June 23, 2008 12:40
YUTE YUH INNA A VERY VERY STICKY THING, BUT DAT DON'T MEAN SEH YUH CAAN STICK IT. BUT WATCH IT THOUGH, 16 DEH PON DI YOUNG SIDE A THINGS
Posted on June 23, 2008 12:46
My yute go wid u vibes yaa sah! All dat glitta is not gold. Shi mita nuh b jail bait but shi coulda b a one way ticket to u grave yaah. Shi just waan push on di cat pon u suh...u rite fi tink twice. Next ting to u inna video pon internet which seem to b di norm dese days. Another ting, shi lie seh shi a 18, how u really sure if shi a 16? shi nuh coulda a lie bout dat to? Suppen just nuh right bout da B deh. Nuh mek nuh baddy pressha u fi do weh u nuh waan yaah...tell u frend dem seh if dem fi f**k ar demself den if it suh important to dem. My yute when u get inna problem a dem same one tek weh demself and all laugh afta u to. Play it safe yaah...nuff more and betta p**ssy deh out deh!
Posted on June 23, 2008 12:59
mi respect di youth fi nuh f**k whn he had the chance to because if it was me I don't think I could have control myself, reading this open my eyes that it's important to think before you push
Posted on June 23, 2008 13:14
my question is where is her parents? because he said that he went to her place to chill so at the age of 16 her parents don't have any problem with guys checking her especially to chill out
Posted on June 23, 2008 13:28
my yourth low it a lot a times girls seek out guys with money and stark them as u say and the parents are ok with it untill things change and then suddenly u are a rapist so low it i have seen it before. good luck
Posted on June 23, 2008 13:31
What i dont understand is "...after we went back to her place..." If she is 16 how she have her own place? Mi just a tel u stil u fi really know wa u a do. I could be tru she know ur 'well off' she want to 'cash in'.
Posted on June 23, 2008 13:44
My yute sum f**k iz necessary and sum f**k iz jus f**kery king,me naa mek my d**k kabweb up suh if yuh naa f**k jus f**k it but if yuh a f**k leave it for a nex man to pluck it.Mi nuh pardon nutten still dawg but sumtime yuh hav to tek caution,jus ask di jubbi fi a blood test and lace b**dy pan har nastinesssss!!!
Posted on June 23, 2008 13:51
>*> wise decision ---> YES I . NO DOUBT HER GROWING UP SOME MORE WONT HURT ,AND MAYBE SHE CAN LEARN (GOOD-WILL)TRUTH IN U SHE MISSED FROM THE BEGINNING (SEENS SHE LIED FIRST, MAYBE STILL KEEP HER UNTIL SHE IS 18 (FRIENDS) AND SEE IF SHE LIKE U THEN) FRIENDS STILL.BLESSED-LOVE S*T*A*R*
Posted on June 23, 2008 13:55
i think she want you to f**k her to either get you lock up in prison or make you not to leave her.its best you leave that young girl alone.you might be sorry.i am 20 years old its better you date me.you wont go to prison..... ying.amanda@yahoo.com
Posted on June 23, 2008 14:09
yute she reach consent! so dont watch the age.. if you really rate her an she rates you put her on the cutting board =)
Posted on June 23, 2008 14:13
my yute....tek whey uself!
Posted on June 23, 2008 15:09
YOW MI BREDDA A JOKE TING YUH A DEAL WID
YU A BIGMAN FI HAR.. NUH U SAMEONE WEH HAVE BIG CORPORATE JOB..
GET A BIG OOMAN MI DON
LIKKLE GYAL FI LIKKLE BWOY
MOVE UP TIME NOW MI DON !!!
Posted on June 23, 2008 16:51
dis yah one yah sticky nuh r*ss
Posted on June 23, 2008 19:13
U r too old for her.U are the adult here, now that u found out that she is only 16yrs old u don't need anyone to tell u that she is too young for you and that u should not have sex with her. I don't care if she too off her clothes and walked butt naked in fron of u she is still a kid.Give them time to grow up and find someone ur own age.
Posted on June 23, 2008 19:40
First comment to you young man is, this girl lie about her age, is she 16? remember AIDS maybe she is taking out revenge on men, I must commend you for seeking advise, if most men did what you did we wouldn't have to be digging grave yards everyday and suicide rate would be down. You are decent, peer pressure is bad, LISTEN BE A LEADER NOT A FOLLOWER.
Posted on June 23, 2008 20:04
YOUTH WATCH DIS THEN YOU WILL KNOW WHAT TO DO
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NDK3QaGWBEc
Posted on June 23, 2008 20:19
gal fi get f**k any means any how a dat bounty seh , she a 16 c**ky deh yah fi wheel under a har
Posted on June 24, 2008 01:53
my yute when it cum to p*ssy me nuh ramp don, get some ruff ryder and sort out r hole den bail left dat flat a road
Posted on June 24, 2008 05:21
I commend you on staying away from this young lady. Not only is she deceiving but her stalking you suggests her immaturity. Stick to your principles, and don't bow to pressure, obviously you are your own person and knows what is right for you.
All those of you who have been advising him to have sex with her need to think above the waist. Sex extends way beyond just penis, vagina and pleasure.
Posted on June 24, 2008 10:18
@ des, there is nothing wrong in being 16 and having your own place. I was just 16 when I started UTECH and I had my own place because not everyone can get a place in the dorms, so I don't think that is nothing to worry about. However, she is 16, and from my experience when you are let into the open world like that, own apartment and such, you feel as if you are grown and want to grown things. I think the reader should talk to her seriously about it and make sure that she is emotionally ready. If she is, both of them should just be careful and take it strides. If he has no intention of staying with her, then he should probably leave her alone and don't have sex with her.
Posted on June 24, 2008 11:02
SHE IS 16!! What more needs to be said. rahtid!
Posted on June 24, 2008 12:27
Leave that girl alone, she is trouble
Posted on June 24, 2008 14:23
she want it so give it to her.
Posted on June 24, 2008 15:04
eeeeh, smaddy soon deal wid har fi u if nah deal wid it.
Posted on June 24, 2008 16:14
when a young girl is 16 there is so much we hope for married and kids, once the first man we luv we will never want him to leave, so i would suggest u get a big woman that knows how to deal with realation-ship then a child who lives in fairy world
Posted on June 24, 2008 20:35
@Posted by Anonymous | June 23, 2008 2:13 PM
Mi couldn't seh it any better.
King, your career is much important right now. She too eager and if you have to think about it suh hard, don't do it b/c das a sign!
Wait deh...and shi a liad!!
Posted on June 24, 2008 21:09
why is she rushing for you to f**k her i don't really trust that girl,mine she have something in har fassy ready fi let out on you to cause destruction on you boy,me nuh know you but me love you as a brother,if your mind don't tell you to do a thing don't force your self.
Posted on June 25, 2008 12:59
16 teen sound a way but if skins fi tear skins fi tear propa she will live a learn
Posted on June 26, 2008 00:17
OMG..shes jus 16..come on she suppose to knw better than that..well glad to knw that you atleast think before u act...becas u might get urself into some serious trouble..leave har alone
Posted on June 26, 2008 08:34
My yute give de gal whe she want yu a wha? If yu never waa f**ck it yu woulda run har long time, send har to me mek a f**ck har an duck har. Yu ave time a use concience inna dis ya millennium.
Posted on June 28, 2008 17:12
yeh big up to everyone pon the site first of all ,hear wey me a say me dupps,look pon the pros and cons before u mke a move,trouble no set like rain,i too was involved wid such a girl when i was 20.I took her as a friend only at first use to giv a listening ear,until things change, feelings strt develop ,we got involved and two yrs after she got pregnant,u know how dat go ,me fret no r*ssclawt, prison miss me my rass and me get a next chance so jus tek tht in mind u see me, careful
Posted on June 30, 2008 10:29
Suppose she's 15!