Dear Mr. Proppa Fix,
I read your advice column yesterday (last week) and was impressed with the advice you gave to the young man. I have my own dilemma and would like your advice.
I am a 20 year-old woman attending a tertiary level institution in the Montego Bay area. I consider myself very attractive and most guys compliment my figure. I am also an outgoing person who enjoys meeting people.
I have been dating this guy for two months, he is a perfect gentleman, and he always tries to give me anything I want. He makes a respectable living and he is very progressive and ambitious as he is always looking for new opportunities. We connect on a social level, however, the problem is that he has a very small d**k - when I say small I mean that it is short and very mawga. The first time we were about to have sex, and he took off his clothes I had to search to find it- it was so embarrassing.
I know that he is sensitive about it because I realize that he always wants the lights to be off whenever we are having sex and he has had to resort to ‘other’ methods of trying to please me sexually. The thing is that nothing can replace a good d**k and that is what I am used to getting, as my last boyfriend was very well endowed.
I don’t think that it is only down to the size of his member, but he is also inexperienced in bed. I have heard my girlfriends talk about guys that have small p*nis but know how to use it effectively, this guy is just really lame when it comes to sex.
Now my major dilemma is that there is a young man at work that is interested in me. He is very handsome and I have heard through the grape vine that this guy is the boss in bed. One of my girlfriends told me that he also has a huge thing and he is not afraid to use it because they used to date and he had her talking in tongues.
I really like my current boyfriend but the guy at work seems to be a much better option right now because even though I know that sex is not the only thing in a relationship - for me it is a major part. I am so curious because of what I have heard about my co-worker but I am not the type of girl to cheat - so I am wondering Mr. Proppa Fix, what should I do?
M.S.
Montego Bay
Dear M.S.
Many women across the world face your dilemma. I have counseled quite a few women that say they love their partner, but their partner ‘falls short’ when it comes to sex. I think that sex is something that may not always be as good as it can be at the beginning of a relationship. It takes time for you to get to know all the pleasure spots on your partner’s body and I realize that you have only been seeing each other for a couple of months. It might be good to give him some more time, and help him to gain some more love making experience.
P*nis size is often overrated in the bedroom so I do not think that you should focus all of your attention on that for now. Focus on teaching him how to use what he has and you may be surprised at the results.
I would advise you not to let sex be the deciding factor as to whether or not you stay with your current boyfriend or seek what seem to be greener pastures at your work place. The young man that you described at your office sounds like he fits the description of the ‘office bull’ as your other female co - workers seem to be a little too well acquainted with the intricacies of his anatomy. Be careful of this guy because you might just end up being in his statistic book.
Think carefully about the decision that you take in this case because sex among co-workers can also lead to a very uncomfortable working environment should things turn sour. You should also consider the possible transmission of sexually transmitted infections since he seems to be involved with several other girls.
That is my advice young lady - tek it or leave it
Posted on June 30, 2008 11:52
lmfao.. DILDO
Posted on June 30, 2008 12:45
it very simple f@ck the big d#ck man and deh wid the man yu like!
Posted on June 30, 2008 13:09
u need to accept what you have and try other things because the office guy may be an a*shole jus because he got it and if ur friends is no longer with him he may not be the greatest guy. MAKE IT WORK
Posted on June 30, 2008 13:16
How da hell are they advertising their BA**I BOWYS adevertisment on this site????????
(Edited) It's google ads the website has no control over what shows
Posted on June 30, 2008 13:18
I agree with madd_a_road, it's just that simple!
Posted on June 30, 2008 13:27
first off you should talk to your man and let him know how you feel and see if you too can come to a conclusion together. I think if you take the time out to teach him rather than wanting to sleep with a man your friend already slept with (yuk) would be better than pushing energy into sleeping with some one else just because of a penis size. I know that if you invest, it can grow
Posted on June 30, 2008 13:40
Madd a road a so bun ting chan't dun. Dont tell di girl f---ry cause a so she gooda get her eye black and blue.Try with the little man baby teach him what u want an show him some blues.
Posted on June 30, 2008 13:57
Dah one yah real difficult...Mi seh f**k di big d**k man and deh wid the nice one.
Posted on June 30, 2008 14:50
Baby u c di name di gyal dem giv to met(grynacalogist),if u need sumting to hurt up yuh belly like u were drink spoil milk u can depend on me,I wud jus fly dung for a week r two and jus put the pork pon di cuttin board and knife it.....Mygurl jus link mi pon mi female address suh we can get acquainted...onesonsean@yahoo.com..........Fluffy wha kind a dildo u a introduce d chick to a b*ddy fi di p*m p*m,boww catt seh di light fi turn off suh we can f*** inna di light.
Posted on June 30, 2008 15:16
dwrl! My advice....guh get a proppa fix!
Posted on June 30, 2008 15:24
Size matters but love is stronger than that. The girl and her guy just starting out. She should give him a chance. Some guys know how to work with what they got. Some less than others that's why you have to learn. Teach him ! Put love before pleasure ! ^-^
~ Ms. Kawaii
Posted on June 30, 2008 16:00
this little lady sound like a bird.. with the rest of her friends... she dont deserve no good man she need a man fi dig out har belly and left har just like har ex-man do har
Posted on June 30, 2008 16:58
So what if the man little, and to be honest it could be you with your big hole...f**k that, if he's a good man keep him and work with him and remember they are toys you can buy.
Posted on June 30, 2008 17:16
the only advice I have for her is go and get your p*ssy stitch and stop blaming it on the dude, my d**k huge and some girl that i sex let me of to be thinking if mi dick a get small
Posted on June 30, 2008 17:43
Lol at hollywood... anyways i think u answer ur own queston... if a man treats u right but the sex not all that good, try teach him and if that don't work buy u toys... Don't ruin a good thing hun, plus that co worker sounds like a dog...
Posted on June 30, 2008 20:26
u mus not deh wwid u fren x man,,,thath is whack.........n nasty.n one other thing small axe can fall big tree...
Posted on July 1, 2008 00:28
weel bad for u......my hood still long and thick.
likkle h**d nuh mek it:-/
Posted on July 1, 2008 09:08
yow babes, hear wha to do, teach d man how u want it, wha u like, dont leave him in d dark. watchin blues wit him in d bedroom could help too. try and get him comfortable so dat he nah haffi turn awfff di bl**dclart light all d time...lmfao. den he will gain a higher level of confidence so dat he can bless yuh wit he likkle piece ah steel. if yuh kno how to find yuh g-spot, show him dat by usin his fingers, and den find ah sex position where he can local & hit yuh g-spot wit he twig
Posted on July 1, 2008 09:48
@Mr Proppa Fix, the best advise you could give. I loved what you said to her and keep the good work my yute.
Posted on July 1, 2008 11:32
IF YOU REALLY LOVE HIM THEN GIVE HIM SOME TIME AND TEACH HIM.....THE MOST IMPORTANT THING IS THAT HE TREATS YOU LIKE A MAN SHOULD.BE PATIENT BESIDES MAYBE YOUR STUFF IS JUST TOO BIG YOU SHOULD DO SOME KEGEL EXERCISES....GOOGLE IT..KEGEL EXERCISES
Posted on July 1, 2008 18:00
Just tell you man fi read bout some product fi help him get big pon da website yah:- (Edited)
Posted on July 6, 2008 11:43
Sex at the workplace is the worst thing you can do........dooooo not succumb to that so called big d**k dude.....i used to be one of those big d**k men in the work place...f**king every female around.....but after a while that sh*t catches up to you and creates a VERRRRY uncomfortable work environment.....a lotta time ppl end up quitting their jobs or even getting fired because of mixed feelings about who im messing with and so forth.
so my advice is to teach the DUDE....help him grow....he seems willing to plz u with other things so stop being selfish...work with him....sex gets better with time in a serious relationship.....ur vagina will eventually get used to his d**k...ull be surprised.
ive had chcicks that used to say i was too big and they cant handle me.....untill after a couple months they riding like real professionals so give him time,
Posted on July 6, 2008 12:25
"Behave" a man like you make woman pu**y get big and then yuh left then they run to that small d**k man then crazy problem, where even start thinking that is the man dem d**k small when is her pu**y big
Posted on July 27, 2008 19:42
DWL!!
Tell her to call mi = 7713808
From she don't ugly, then thingz can gwaan fi har and i will giv her di proper Fix.